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the best way to stop a relationship
Posted by muzungumalaika • 3/29/09 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: the end of a love story, words you use
You don't love him or her anymore ... how you explain her or him, what kind of words do you use?
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Exactly as you've said here, be honest.
Explain gently that you don't feel now as you once did and you've tried to recapture those old feelings but it's not working and you think it would be kinder on them and you if you moved on. They have a right to be loved and so on...
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yes me too, I mean when it happened i was really honest, but my boyfriend thought that i was leaving him for another, which was not true. He got very hurted.I was souffering for him most than for me. Sometimes it's better if you souffer instead of let the other people souffering for you (hope you an undertand my english)
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Here's how: Each of you make a list of everyone you've ever slept with and then share the lists with each other. Way TMI!!! This was part of an recent episode of Gossip Girl (OMG), and although I am not their typical viewer, I thought it was a good plot element. Watching it, I winced so badly that my husband wanted to know what was wrong. I didn't tell him. We are still married.
Read more about why we got married in the first place at
www.i-cant-believe-im-not-bitter.com -
so you mean that thanks to this lye you're still married? No maybe I'm misunderstanding
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No, it was me who misunderstood. I didn't read the whole question, and thought it was just asking how to get out of a relationship, you know like Ways to Leave Your Lover, so I was being flippant. I don't know a serious answer, because breaking up IS hard to do.
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well I can see a lot of viewers overtherebut nobody is interested on this conversation, you have reason my friends!
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I have nothing to add to the conversation. I'm just nosy and want to see how everyone answers;) -
I am too blunt and to the point to add advice, I am sorry. I need to work on being more sensitive. I have a hard time talking about good feelings but the not so good feelings usually come out pretty harsh and simple. -
The old stand by "It's not you, it's me!"
Of course, I have resorted to the dumping email in the past in which I make it perfectly clear that it is their fault and its not me.-
That's definitely better then my approach
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I am not so nice sometimes and take the cowardly method of dumping someone out of anger. See revised ^
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Luckily, I never had this problem.
The one and only Love of my Life stayed that way for 50 years, until death did us part. And, it was reciprocal. Heaven on earth. -
We've got to talk followed by I just want to be friends, then incert it's not you it's me, I'm sorry I just need some space. For good measure you can throw in a I want you to be happy and I just can't be part of that right now. -
Just tell the person it's not going to work out, and walk away. You can be nice, you can be mean - you can be blunt or tactful - but whatever you do, simply be honest, and get it over with.
Like pulling off a bandaid. -
just gone! hihihi...
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