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The Disease To Please

Posted by praning5254 • 5/27/08 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: disease to please, hate to say no, people pleaser

I just published a post on a relatively new word on psychology - people pleaser.

To know what I mean please check this out:

praningshoutout.blogspot.com/2008/05/disease-to-please.html

Question:

Is it hard for you to say no?

User Comments

5/27/08

BennyGreenberg

if she has three breasts... It is easy to say no! Wait is that a different thread?

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1. 5/27/08
  
  BennyGreenberg
  
  removed for duplication
2. 5/27/08
  
  Jeunelle
  
  Hey I started the 3 breasted pheonomenon and should get credit for it.
  3 is trinity but is really just 1... an optical illusion.
5/27/08

praning5254

LOL, Ben... I thought you might enjoy the extra one...

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1. 5/27/08
  
  BennyGreenberg
  
  nope - I am a simple man - mutants are not what I am after - two nice handfulls are plenty
2. 5/27/08
  
  timethief
  
  wrong placement
5/27/08

praning5254

But just in case mastectomy would be advised at least you have a reservation...

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1. 5/27/08
  
  BennyGreenberg
  
  Thinks... I am still gonna pass...
5/27/08

BennyGreenberg

Jump in anytime now TT

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5/27/08

praning5254

oh, ok... I rest my case...

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5/27/08

wenfri

Handsful LOL

More than a mouthful is a waste so hubby says LOL

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1. 5/27/08
  
  BennyGreenberg
  
  You husband has a point - for himself - but - a nice handful - oh god - I am stopping...
5/27/08

timethief

@Praning
OMG! It's the 3 breasted thing again. This is what Ben and I are referring to www.blogcatalog.com/discuss/entry/can-88-inch-female-breasts-be-lethal-weap...

@Praning
The link to take the quiz on your blog post is b0rked. I clicked it and got this: "Forbidden. Sorry."

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1. 5/27/08
  
  BennyGreenberg
  
  TT - And you worrying about your bum staying soft and supple
2. 5/27/08
  
  timethief
  
  @Ben
  [She stamps her foot and green sparks shoot from her eyes].
  
  I have firm buns. Buns are not the issue. Bicycle seats do ride up the "center line" and can chafe precious parts. IMO that's why
  a sheepskin bicycle seat cover is a good idea.
  
  Edit: Yes Ben to the docking station issue .. now you've got it.
3. 5/27/08
  
  BennyGreenberg
  
  lamb skin covers - well - they work well too...
  but that may be a port of call issue... or a docking station thing...
4. 5/27/08
  
  praning5254
  
  Thanks TT, I just had a visit on the other thread about the breast. That's really hilarious! LOL
  
  It seems Ben can't stop talking about it...
5. 5/27/08
  
  BennyGreenberg
  
  I can't shake the unearthly feeling...
  I think I am going to visit Jacks Blog and get a look at 88 inch breasts - no wait - that is not normal either...
  
  where are all the 34b ladies...
5/27/08

timethief

@Ben
Well 34B is smallish IMO. It all depends on the frame I suppose.
We need to stop fooling about in this thread ok?

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5/27/08

BennyGreenberg

ok 36 b
I am not going to argue with you TT

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1. 5/27/08
  
  timethief
  
  @Ben
  Clever ploy. I'm leaving this thread now Ben. Bye bye.
2. 5/27/08
  
  BennyGreenberg
  
  ploy - moi? Didn't even think of it until you said it - but now we all know...
  laughs
5/27/08

praning5254

I already went to see Jack's post but there's no image of this 88" breasts.

34b ladies are gone banging already, you're left behind again, Ben...LOL

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5/27/08

BennyGreenberg

Pranning you may want to start this one all over again...
It kinda got outta hand... or mouth... or whatever

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5/27/08

praning5254

ha, never mind...I enjoyed the discussion...LOL

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5/27/08

timethief

@Praning
Returning to the real topic in the thread now. I'm not a people pleaser so it's never been hard for me to say "no".
P.S. I did not take the test because it required registering.

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5/27/08

ThriftShopRomantic

Well, it's not on topic, but it IS funny...

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1. 5/27/08
  
  timethief
  
  It's freaking hilarious. My mind went crazy imagining all kinds of three breast suffocation techniques and creating bizarre scenarios.
  
  And an 88 inch bust measurement gives the phrase "a 40 pounder" a whole new meaning now doesn't it. Or how about "two loaded 44s".
  
  Just speculate for a moment on the long terms effects of gravity on those huge silicon puppies. Imagine three of them dragging on the ground and then imagine 3 weanling calves, still craving mamma's milk running up latching on and refusing to let go until they experience the disappointment -- the emptiness of it all.
2. 5/27/08
  
  BennyGreenberg
  
  A Colt 45 and a Breast 40 - two chicken wings and a partridge in a pear tree
5/27/08

DrowseyMonkey

As for your original question....is it hard for me to say no? No. I've never been a people pleaser. I could care less what people think of me. Having said that, people seem to like me ... unless they're just lying & trying to please me

If I don't wanna do something, I don't do it and don't have a problem saying no and I never feel guilty about it. And people who know me seem to like that about me and respect me for it. Personally, I have a hard time understanding people pleasers. If I ask someone if they want to do something and they say yes, it never occurs to me that they don't really want to do it. It's exhausting trying to figure out what they're really thinking. And it drives me nuts! And those are the type of people I eventually stay away from. I prefer people who are honest & upfront. Just say what ya mean, already.

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5/27/08

Jeunelle

A trick I have learned from watching my mother to wean babies old enough to walk
is to simply put some hot pepper sauce on the nipple.
This burn the lips and they are now turned off from trying to drink when they are old enough
to push the damn carriage. Some mothers would wait till they were around 5 years old, some way older. RIDICULOUS

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1. 5/27/08
  
  cranelegs
  
  help me ... and the connection to the question might be?
  
  by the way, hot pepper sauce on the nip? to quote sammy davis jr., "ouch babe".
5/27/08

Jeunelle

When you are trying to get those rug rats to stop drinking the river dry
you'll be thankful for hot pepper sauce too.
How does the old calypso go??? "De man with de peppa sauce is boss".
LMAO

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