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Tips on How to find a rich man to date
Posted by ModelElaine • 8/15/08 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: date, Dating, MEN, singles, women
I will probably be bashed for this post, especially after I posted an article on how to find a good looking man to date, but here it is internet-dating-guru.blogspot.com/2008/08/where-can-i-meet-wealthy-man-to-d... Do you think single women could find this info useful?
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Any info on finding a rich woman? -
Great article, Elaine. While I would never seek out a man based on his wealth, I don't have a problem with women who are looking to find a soul mate, someone they truly love, who just happens to be rich. To me, that is not a gold digger. A gold digger is a person who is with a guy solely for his money.
You have had an interesting life, from what I gather.
I have tried online dating (match.com) and, like you, have met nothing but gentlemen. I have nothing bad to say about anyone I've met this way. None were millionaires, but most were very well off. I didn't choose them based on money-that's just the kind of people who happened to contact me. -
Hi ModelElaine - I am always suspicious when I see an endorsement with an affiliate link to a site. I suspect there are lots of imposters on millionairematch. The certified millionaire can easily fool the website administrator if the evidence is simply a photocopy.
Do you remember a show on TV called "How would you like to marry a millionaire?"
A "millionaire" chose one woman from 50. Got married and had a honeymoon. She filed for an annulment... Turns out he wasn't really a millionaire. -
Oh darn it all to heck
I am already married
Thought I married money but boy was I ever mistaken ROFLMAO -
What could be more, dis-empowering to a woman than to be actively looking for a rich man? It would make me question the woman's self-image and self-esteem? Have we regressed to the 18OO's? LOL-
Some women are not like that, but many in my area are specifically looking for someone with an income of at least $500,000 per year. Seriously.
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I think these women need to get a job. Why on earth would you want to be someone's pet? Well, unless as agapelife said you have no self image or self esteem. Or maybe base your entire image on your looks and the bling you wear. Lordy. -
Women who make money would probably want a guy who makes his own money. You wouldn't want to end up supporting your husband... and his family. -
Ryam has a good point that I had never thought of. Women looking for men in a certain income category may not be looking to be "kept" but rather, looking for man who isn't looking for a rich woman (a gold digger), who won't have too many problems with regards to pre nup agreements, and who won't feel "less than" because the women makes significantly more than he does.
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You're right ... I just figured they were air headed gold diggers. Wonder what the reality is tho. Hmmm.....I bet there are more gold diggers then women with high incomes. Call me cynical.
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No doubt there are gold diggers out there - but "high income" is a subjective thing.
There may be only a few CEO type millionaire women out there, but there are plenty who make $100k and above. It would make sense to seek someone out with a similar income. -
you don't need to date a millionaire to ensure that you're not supporting someone. that's just an excuse.
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I agree with the above said. Women in my area are successul, independent, executive type six figure earners. They want to date men who are just as successful.
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Elaine, is your post a reflection of you? Most bloggers blog about what interests them.
That being said, do you make between $100K and 600K a year and are you looking for a "rich man"? Is MONEY your most important criteria in finding a husband and stepfather for your kids? Would you stay with someone who lost all their money?
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Makes sense...we always go for the anna nicole assumption without realizing that many of us are just trying to not get used ourselves.
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Just a note for you river, there are some very beautiful Russian women-
Yeah, but their love costs money. Lots and lots of it. -
My wonderful wife's family are from the Polish Russian border, she's lovely
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I find the idea of women chasing RICH MEN as sickening as 60 year old men dating 18 year olds.
I think if a woman was reasonably intelligent she'd be looking for a wealthy man, and wealth and includes many other aspects other than just $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$'s-
...Which is why Elaine is completely full of it. Every time I show up on this site, she's always there on the first page. Just babbles on and on about something to do with dating guys or breaking up with guys or doing drugs or shopping. I wonder who paid for her car.
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But she's running a dating site, it's a good resource of info, even the negative stuff is food for thought
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You seem to be doing a lot of projecting there river, lol.
I think Elaine's threads make sense because they reflect her blog and her business. -
When I'm 60 I'd want to date 19 year old bimbos. That's by the grace of my prostate, of course. -
Flame: Hilarious
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Just being honest. I have no time to try to conform to politically correct or socially acceptable norms. If it's legal and if I want to do it, I will do it without any shame or guilt. If it's illegal and I want to do it, it never happened until you have evidence
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one of the easiest ways to meet rich men is for those that live near affluent areas. you can just go to the restaurants, bars, and clubs that they frequent.
if you dont live near an affluent area this doesnt apply
but beware women you will have competition, there will be many other women with the same thing on their minds there. many will be hotter and in some cases younger so therefore make sure you bring your A-game.-
Then they get too old to play the game anymore and end up living where I used to live (Just moved out recently, thank god) and make life hell for whoever they can.
Seriously, there's this woman I lived with in a shared house..She was a golddigger for most of her life. Now she's like, 40 and works a minimum wage job just to pay the bills. Made me miserable every damn day, because she'd just come home and complain about everything and everybody. The most action she gets these days are making out in front of the house with some guy she probably met in a bar.
Anyway, Elaine might have grasped the reality that she can't do it forever, but for now she seems content by hiding it with Painkillers and Shopping (She's actually admitted doing this is a "great way to get over a breakup")
I get more private messages from people who praise me for speaking up about people like her more often than I get hate mail regarding anything else. It just gives other women such a bad impression, they're obviously not thrilled about topics like these. -
riverstyxxx
I knew you'd show up here with your "I am unhappy and therefore everyone who is a jerk" attitude. Listen, if you don't have what it takes to date a successful, smart, educated and beautiful women, don't bash about it. I am sure there is someone for you too. That's where the theory of equity in a relationship comes in. Ever wonder why rich marries rich, good looking marries good looking, etc.? To each their own.
As they say, "water finds its level"
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Stupid post
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i disagree, it's relevant to Elaine and some people
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it is true that you need to try and nail the guy down before he gets bored or you get too old. I suggest getting pregnant. You may not get him to stick around but at the very least you are entitled to child support. I suggest poking holes in his condoms with a pin, or 'fogetting' to take your birthcontrol
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Please tell me you are trolling
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LOL. Oh man, that is a hoot. You'd be surprised how many women try this scam just to get money for child support. They usually just make a career out of having one kid and another, over and over..then keep most of the money for themselves. Some women will have like five kids then be set, what they do is show up in court playing the "Deadbeat Dad" card and then win a check every month until it turns 18.
This scam is even worse then the "Eviction Drifter" one..You know what I'm talking about, they pay the deposit then a few months worth of rent, then get a free ride because the owner is stuck doing eviction paperwork for months and paying court costs to have them enforced. Some people get a whole year worth of free rent just by doing this. -
Yeah, I'd be very surprised--mostly because child support is set by statewide guidelines, and in all my years practicing divorce law and later writing about it, I never encountered a case in which child support was adequate to support a child, let alone a child and his mother. Which is fine, because it's not meant to be--it's meant to provide a PORTION of the child's support.
For instance, in Illinois a non-custodial parent of one child who earns $60,000/year and is paying health insurance premiums will pay $970/month in child support--assuming that he has no other children to support. But, of course, most people do have other children...and the median income for a single person in Illinois is $44,673, so most people aren't earning $60,000...and no one is supporting a child and herself on $970/month unless she's living in very ugly circumstances.
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I'm not sure, because I'm not at all sure why anyone would be looking for a "rich man" to date. I know it happens, though, because there are dating sites like WealthyMen.com where women can dress up like prostitutes and post photographs for the privilege of dating income-verified men.
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To answer this, there are a lot of filthy rich women in my area: executives, business owners etc. Then again there is a large pool of ex-dot-com divorcees where I live. All these women get dolled up and go to various top notch restaurants to meet men. But how many men can a woman meet by going out to a restaurant? Not too many. Online dating presents a great way to meet lots of people who meet your requirements, whom you otherwise would not have met.
PS: I also heard Los Gatos has a high density of sugar mommas. some men go on the prowl in those areas to meet rich women. How do you think that makes a woman feel? -
"some men go on the prowl in those areas to meet rich women. How do you think that makes a woman feel?"
Hm. Probably just about the same way it makes men feel when women do the same. Are you saying that you think this is acceptable behavior for a woman but not for a man? -
Los Gatos, hey?
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I'm not surprised you didn't get an answer, MadameX. Welcome to the world of double standards
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I am sure it makes them feel the same way. That's why there are dating site that allow for the rich to find each other
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Are there? I'm only aware of sites like wealthymen.com, where the MEN are income verified and the women just have to look good.
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they are. that's why I wrote my post that we are discussing here that addresses wealthy men by the way, and NO the site I recommend is not in any shape or form WealthyMen
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it is very easy to meet men at bars/restaurants. very easy.
if anyone is in south florida i can tell you exactly where to go-
where? And where in South Fl are you? I am in CA, but I love S.FL
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Become a shameless prostitute.
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Elaine - would you sleep with me for a million dollars?
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not really. You scare the heck out of me
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Elaine, that's not his real face. I don't think.
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in that case the answer is still NO. Sorry I have a boyfriend :-(
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Elaine - shouldn't you discuss significant financial matters with your boyfriend before making a decision? Either he is not a serious boyfriend or perhaps you are afraid he might say yes.
I wear a gas mask. I can take off the mask but only if you promise me you are environmentally friendly. Do you wear perfume? Do you use any beauty products with the ingredient "fragrance" in it? Do you bathe with petrol-based soap? Do you flush any prescription drugs down the toilet? If yes to any of these then I will have to keep the mask on or withdraw the offer. -
Ekim - the secret is to look at the monitor, not your keyboard.
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I prefer to decide on my financial matters on my own, thank you very much. If I wanted someone to control my financial decisions, I'd get married -
@blogonsmog- I only wear unscented perfume.
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Ekim - you will shave your legs I hope? You don't mind if I keep my gasmask on?
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That's some ingenious advice ModelElaine, as usual.
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That's an interesting question. Would anyone sleep with anyone for a million $s? Indecent Proposal. Not me. Just would not be of interest even if I was attracted to him naturally. Uck to be bought is not nice.
Pretty sad when all is about the money.-
It's the first line of a joke. Not sure whether Elaine already knows it or just hasn't been back to take the bait.
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Beauty and brains - what a combo! Any bets Elaine will never find out the second line, MadameYnot?
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As MadameX pointed out it is a joke. The second line is (not sure of exact wording): "Now that we have established what you are can we negotiate the price?"
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Well, Im gonna throw in my two cents. And yes ladies, there's plenty more where that came from but Im gonna take one back because its only a penny for my thoughts. Im rich!!
This question is narrowly aimed at "money" why cant it just be "how to find a man to date" its hard enough just to find a decent person to hang out with but now there are these ridiculous tips on how to find a "rich" man to date. Why do you want to date a rich man? because he has money because you obsviously didnt ask "how to find a interesting man to date" so you arent looking for charm or personality. The last thing we need is gold digging tips. Not all rich people are worth a conversation.-
Wrong place.
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well, I guess these are the type of posts that are very diggable...
- how to find a good looking guy
- how to find a rich man
- how to find a man with many expensive vehicles
- how to find a man with both a summer home and winter home
- how to find a man with large feet
- how to find a man who's single
- how to find a man [fill in the blanks]-
But...um...who wants to "find" a man? Is this supposed to be like shopping?
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You know Tiffany, shopping for men isn't a half bad idea so long as there is a great return policy.
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Alas, Anok, my church has a crappy return policy on spouses.
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Only on the married ones though - that's like buying from the scratch and dent section
The ones you date on the other hand - I think the church leaves you free and clear with a nice warranty, yes?
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Hang on a minute Elaine
What about us poor blokes!
How about a post :- Tips on How to find a rich WOMAN to date :-)
Any takers, I'm a 6ft, blue eyed stud muffin :-) I haven't got a fat wallet, but I do have a big heart x-
Drat! I already have a blue eyed stud muffin with a big heart and no wallet.
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Eh, you'll find that type of kindness just doesn't have any face value to it. Ironically enough, women use that as a stepping ladder to get what they really want though.
No money = No fun. Fact of life, thanks to topics like this. -
Not true.
I wasn't loaded, but I had more than enough of a cash flow when the hubby and I married, and he was stone cold broke.
We're still married
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i'd say just for the women... learn to play golf. where something really revealing and go to the golf course and play some golf! you'll find plenty of rich men at the golf course. hehe. i mean just look at their cars. them and their fancy convertible bmws and such. you will definately score some if you go look at a golf course! -
How about work on being the best woman you can - attractive, succesful, educated, confident and the list goes on. Maybe then you will attract the type of man that will make you happy.-
My articles is mainly for women who are all those things and are looking to find a man to date who is like them
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@ Anok
I'm so glad that someone knows the fact that money does not in any way guarantee happiness. It seems to bring equally as much heartache as any happiness!-
Yes, yes it does...too much can spoil things (creating jealousy, paranoia, etc) too little causes strife, as well...
There is a nice fair balance somewhere in between...
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Rich man? It ain't the money. It s the social make up that makes a difference.
I know from my experience that wealthy, and blue collar men are extremely different... their values, their social interactions, how they perceive woman.
If a woman is seeking out a high society man, I would think she should investigate the what high society is like.-
I think that depends on where the money came from. I know a few men (three) who own ridiculously successful companies, but who made their own money, and their character seems to have been untouched by success.
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I agree.
I guess you have to look at what people want.
When i spent time around people who grew up in wealthy areas, both the men and woman.
What they they wanted in life, mates,etc. was very different from me and my blue collar roots.
The few self made wealthy men i knew were different. I think it has to do with upbringing.
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hehehhe this was funny... find a Rich man!! Simply Go to the Casino (private rooms) or private nightclubs lol even though Money is not everything but everyone's have his/her own opinion and the way he/she want to live this life :))-
Thank you for the tip. I just wrote about meeting rich men in Las Vegas everything-las-vegas.blogspot.com/2008/08/meet-rich-men-in-vegas.html
check it out!
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Rich in bank balance or soul?-
... oh what a sad world we live in when people use dating services to find rich men.
Flowers as always a great lil teaser question that is so powerful.
Rich in soul is sooooo much more valuable than any amount of money.
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It's fascinating how people just start attacking the blog writer like this is just the most outrageous idea.
What is really so wrong about getting some advice about landing a rich partner? I don't think that this translates to you ending up together just because of the money. The money may just be an initial qualifier, a prerequisite if you may. This doesn't shut out the other steps in the process of finding a mate -- you would really be just shuffling the steps to become more practical in today's world.
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What ever happened to, for better or worse ? Well if i was rich i would just hire a hooker its cheaper in the long run, at least i know what her price is . LOL -
Any woman who is interested first and foremost in a man's salary, isn't a woman worth being with.
Women are trapped in that they feel that always must date "up", dating men who are more successful or wealth than they are. Men, however, don't feel any sort of compulsion to find women who make more money than them.
That is why you see so many successful single women. They are trapped by their own dating rules and have eliminated so many men they end up alone.-
I so disagree with that. I have talked and met some rich women on this site. It's not just for dating, it's also for networking
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You see successful single women because they don't have time to rear kids, run a household and chase after relationships.
It's not a case of that they eliminate men who earn less than them. They simply have different priorities than poor guys, and they probably share priorities (along with a host of other similarities)with rich guys. Plus, poor people tend to hang out in cheap joints while richer folks hang out in more expensive joints. Where would rich girls and poor guys ever meet to begin with?
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This whole topic just reeks of a sophisticated form of prostitution. In some ways, it's actually worse..Believe it or not, it's cheaper to pay for a favor 'in your car' rather than let your money-hungry girlfriend (No names mentioned..) drive your car. Anyone else agree with me, or am I just crazy?
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you are just crazy
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Elaine, I don't think he's crazy. I see both perspectives here
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There are some people who feel that marriage - with a stay at home wife or mother - is a form of prostitution as well.
Obviously the line has to be drawn somewhere, and I think it's fair to say that intent and ethics are a good place to start.
It isn't fair to say that someone looking for a particular type of person - be it wealthy, good looking, bad boy, or quiet gal, religious, not religious child free by choice or stone cold broke - it at the level of a prostitute. Everyone has likes and dislikes - and while some may find others to be shallow for their choices, I think that most of the time, it's not "prostitution". -
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It's not a total waste of time.
There was at least one perspective given that actually changed my opinion about the subject - if only a little. -
If you read the post, you will note that different girls regard different qualities as rich qualities. It does not necessarily mean financially rich.
Also, in the topic it becomes evident that this post was a response to questions from readers. You may think this is shallow, but you can't call ModelElaine shallow for this. You'd have to call the mass of readers who requested this information shallow.
If you think about it, any kind of relationship is a form of prostitution because you give some in exchange for something else.
Then again, I have no idea regarding how much a favour in a car would cost and I should probably trust the judgement of someone who is apparently familiar with the finer details of prostitution on this one.
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I agree with you Ryam. It's absurd to bash on women who are looking to date a rich man. They want a successful man - so? I sense bitterness, riverstyxxx, I suppose you are not successful. Well, I think it's a wonderful post and great info for women out there looking to date or network.-
If I am not mistaking riverstyxxx lives some place in OC, where its the highest density of wealthy beautiful women. Whatever the reason is, they don't want to go out with him. Hey, like I said before, WATER FINDS ITS OWN LEVEL. Since they apparently don't think he is up to par, he comes here compalining that he gave up on dating cause he can't find his sugar momma
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I don't think that's quite fair either. I just think that a large chunk of the population doesn't live this particular lifestyle-- much of the US isn't surrounded by only the beautiful and wealthy-- so it becomes hard to relate, understand and often empathize.
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To be honest, it's comforting to know that there are women who know what they want.
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That's a funny expression "sugar mama"
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It is absolutely ridiculous other people what their interested should be.
for example:
Because i have been unable to relate social atmosphere of wealthier woman, i will seek out woman who have similar interests like me. usually working class.
So if people attack women who look for wealthy men, then they should be attack me for blowing wealthier woman off for blue collar girls.
Either away people need to worry about their own interests, not others. -
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Thank you. Tell my readers that. I am in a relationship, so not looking
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sorry that was my intention...was for the readers not aimed at u.
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please give me tips to date a rich woman all though we must not think of rich and poor we must think whether he or she is good from inside
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so how to I appear to be a rich man so your readers want to date me? The only limiting factor would be lack of money.-
Get some financial statements from your bank. Doctor the statements so it looks like you have lots of money in your accounts. Photocopy the doctored statements. Send them into MillionaireMatch. Then you are a "certified" millionaire.
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how many times can a "millionaire" take a woman on PB&J picnics in the park before she gets suspicious?
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I once knew a girl who was gorgeous. She had a boyfriend - he bought her a vacation down to Florida (without him). She came back some time later married to someone other than her boyfriend (nice) - a "millionaire". Turns out the millionaire was as poor as the next man but he had rented a tux and limo. Went fishing for women down in the local pubs, etc.
There was also a book written by someone claiming that in order to be rich you should look rich (i.e. dress rich, drive an expensive car, get in circles of rich people, go to rich people's parties, etc) and everything else will eventually fall into place. I don't know the name of the book but I assume this would be directly applicable to the dating scene.
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Unfortunately I like smart women. It's like Groucho Marx's "I wouldn't belong to a club that would have me as a member"
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If I were a millionaire I'd want to keep that secret. That way I can keep taking my dates on PB&J picnics indefinitely.
Because obviously if you're not a millionaire you don't have to take anyone out on a decent date.
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Step 1: Write an edict.
Step 2: Invest money in said edict.
Step 3: Declare the edict a mandate.
Step 4: There you go. A man to date.
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A mandate with money -> A man to date, with money.
Sentence alchemy.
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You can always start dating a blogger, make him learn AdSense and whatnot, make him create 4 succesful blogs. Marry him, then divorce him, keep 2 blogs to yourself and voila!! Not only will you be rich, but you'll have a steady post-marriage income!
Just make sure the blog's name is not "My wife's a psycho".
Doesn't work on me, though, I have a crazy-girl-repeller. Not 100% reliable, but good enough :-)
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