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To stay or to leave that is the question!
Posted by LolitaV • 10/16/09 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: lolita sheikspear vida
Dear BC member and friend,
A) No one cares if you stay or leave because at the end of the day, you will be replaced.
B) If you think by leaving you are making a statement you are wrong. Chances are we won't even notice.
C)When you leave, don't think that you'll be missed. Chances are, your name will come up 2 to 4 times and you are forgotten.
So this place is a forum your thoughts about leaving/staying don't need to become a thousand threads because frankly, we are just pretending to care. So yeah, now you know, no one gives a flying fvck whether you stay or go.
To the left, to the left,no one is irreplaceable (in a forum)
Cordially,
Lolita SheiksPear Vida
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Gosh you are such an ass!!!! I was gonna leave you my fortune when i die, but now, after this affront, you can kiss it GOODBYE!!!!!
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That's ok
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She may not be missed but she is irreplaceable.-
there is no such thing as irreplaceable.
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It doesn't matter how many people have been here before or will be here after her. No one else is her.
And, Lolita, even in your brief absence, I missed you. -
absolutely but someone else might fill her shoes better. someone who is not so self centered and egotistical as to think that everything is about her. I am tired of the beet-cheese and moaners. I want real conversation from mentally capable and stable adults!
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You can just ignore her. Her paranoia is her problem, not yours.
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NP, in a place such as this one where one comes to relax and frankly mess around and have fun, it is very, very hard to ignore the party poopers. I have nothing against them IF they keep it to one or two threads but one thread an hour complaining and pointing fingers and threatening, i just can't resist the fun. it's like being in Zombieland
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That's great. Have your fun. But remember we're just as responsible for making this ruckus as she is.
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NP, I accept and stand by any word I ever shared on BC. I feel no responsibility because if she was in front of me, i'd slap her, not out of anger but in hopes to get some sense into her.
On the other hand, the more I read her, the more I start to think that maybe, just maybe she is mentally unstable/incompetent.
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Now I've got the song "Should I stay or should I go?" running through my head.
Thanks a lot, LV. -
thanks for putting it in my head...
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GRRRRR, now it's in mine. Thanks a lot guys. I AM LEAVING BC FOR GOD!!
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I meant GOOD!!!!
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Heh.
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great - now it's in my head too.
I want to be a cool person so I can stay... =)
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"So this place is a forum your thoughts about leaving/staying don't need to become a thousand threads..."
And yet they keep on coming.-
because they r addicted. They can't help it. I am sure those who left "for good" still stop by to read us. Hi Losers *waves* you are missing out on all the I'm leaving, why can't I leave threads and the make money threads and the are rich men better @ fvcking and stuff.
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Oh really? I'm leaving.-
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Only the freaks should go.
Cool people have to stay! -
htr - Why do I have to go? -
you can stay, we need you to smack all the freaks for us
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leaving or staying is my choice anyway since im a total stranger to anyone here,and so are they to me.-
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pardon me? wp,whats that?
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wrong place.
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thank u NF..is she really mean that im in the wrong place? i wonder..
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No, that she meant to put her comment somewhere else.
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oh ok..thanks again
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Obelix: These BC'ers are crazy!
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Who are you talking about? I'm confused.
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Hi, Melinda! Read the thread "It's difficult to leave BC."
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Hi NP--I just did. And I am absolutely apalled.
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Anger does strange things to people.
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True enough. I'm glad I never get angry!
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Saint Mel, glad to meet you!
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@NP--"Saint Melinda" -- that does have a nice ring, doesn't it?
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@Claire: Yes, but you hide it so well.
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I know, so well I wasn't even aware of it
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Maybe her medicines are affecting her reasoning...well...just maybe -
On the knot, (don't flame me, I got addicted while wedding planning earlier this year) they mercilessly make fun of the "GBCK" (good bye cruel knot) posts. This seems to happen in every forum, and it's just as laughable in all of them. -
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i would rather be a nympho than be you
You might as well give up No because there is not one thing you can say to or about me that will piss me off. You can call my mother a whore if you want and I will still just laugh at you IN YOUR FACE
Get to the nearest mental institute hun before you commit suicide.
*HUGS*
Lolita "Nympho" Vida
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"The Nymphomaniac Pattern
A nymphomaniac is a woman who has many different partners in a short period of time. I used to think that a nymphomaniac was a parasitic personality type, because they're obviously doing something stupid. Recently, I observed someone stuck in the nymphomaniac pattern. Now, I see that a nymphomaniac is actually a relatively intelligent woman trapped in the Matrix.
As an abused productive worker, the only possible sexual partners are abusive parasites. The nymphomaniac has successfully learned her pro-State brainwashing very well. This leads to the following cycle:
The nymphomaniac succeeds in attracting a parasite. She has mastered her pro-State brainwashing, and plays her role well.
The nymphomaniac then realizes that her partner is a jerk. She is intelligent, and staying with a jerk is obviously stupid.
The nymphomaniac stops aggressively flirting with her partner. Usually, the parasite dumps her, rather than her dumping him. However, she causes the dumping, because she stopped catering to her partner's parasitism. In a sense, she passive-aggressively dumped her partner, (subconsciously?) manipulating him into dumping her.
The parasite gives a superficial reason for dumping her, unrelated to "It's because I'm a jerk!" The nymphomaniac assumes the authority of the parasite is legitimate, and works on being a better abused productive person. The abused productive worker is looking for a pattern that isn't there.
The nymphomaniac is single again. However, her only potential partners are also parasites. Thus, the cycle continues.
The only way the cycle ends is:
The nymphomaniac settles for a parasite who isn't that abusive.
The nymphomaniac learns to emulate parasitic behavior, and dates an abused productive worker. However, this is merely switching teams and playing the parasite role, rather than not being a brainwashed pro-State troll. Such a relationship is unstable, because the nymphomaniac won't really respect the abused productive worker. An intelligent productive worker won't emulate parasitic behavior, because parasitic behavior is obviously stupid.
The nymphomaniac starts to subconsciously figure out what's going on, and winds up involuntarily hospitalized and labeled with a "mental illness".
The parasite relationship equation is defective. The nymphomaniac is attracted to the parasite, but the parasite isn't really attracted to the nymphomaniac. This means that the parasite has the upper hand, and may do as he pleases.
A parasite prefers to date women that he isn't really attracted to. This way, he can dominate them!
The abused productive worker thinks "I must conceal my attraction to my potential partner. Otherwise, he will use this information to control me." Unfortunately, parasites are very easily able to recognize "This woman is attracted to me, but is trying to conceal it!"
The parasites continue their scam, because the abused productive worker doesn't consider the possibility that someone would actually be that evil. The parasite might not even be consciously aware of what he's doing. He's merely emulating the behavior of people around him.
I wonder if that partially caused my first panic attack? I was dealing with an abusive parasitic manager at work. I subconsciously realized "OMFG! Someone is actually that evil!" It was a huge shock! I always assumed that everyone, especially those in State-backed leadership positions, had good intentions like me. I always gave the parasitic manager the benefit of the doubt, and assumed he was stupid or incompetent. If only he learned, he would be a better manager; parasites actively encourage such thinking. That's like a pro-State troll who says "If only the right laws are passed, then the State would not be evil!" I played my abused productive role well, doing my best to help him. That worked against me, because I was pointing out the boneheaded mistakes he was making, trying to help him. I was trying to fix his mistakes, but he interpreted it as a challenge to his authority. In reality, he was playing people's emotions nearly perfectly. The abusive manager had a high-paying financial industry job. He was a parasite who had mastered his role very well. He actually did a great job helping me crack my pro-State brainwashing, by being such an abusive jerk.
It was an amazing experience, to see one parasite totally dominate a group of skilled abused productive workers. Except for that abusive manager, nearly everyone else had the productive personality type.
The abused productive worker is logically strong, but emotionally weak. The people who are emotionally dominant are the parasites. The parasites are accustomed to manipulating others. The abused productive worker is an easy target. The abused productive worker is naturally drawn to a parasite.
Abused productive workers are conditioned to conceal their attraction and interest. This also means that two abused productive workers cannot normally start dating each other. Based on a lifetime of abuse by parasites, they are accustomed to concealing their emotions. Also, they are very insecure. Any misstep is misinterpreted as "The other person isn't interested in me!" Both abused productive workers have this problem, and the relationship cannot progress.
This explains how an abused productive man says "She is a nice woman! Why does she keep dating jerks?! Why won't she date me?" An abused productive woman can only date parasites. That's the way the rules of the Matrix work. The abused productive woman will never respect an abused productive man, because he's emotionally weak.
Also notice this is a method for preserving the Matrix. Two abused productive workers can't get together and share observations. There's always a parasite around to disrupt discussion.
The abused productive woman will hang out with an abused productive man. She'll be happy for the opportunity to play the parasite/dominant role. However, when dating someone, she's conditioned to playing the abused productive worker role.
I was stuck. I realized that dating a parasite is obviously stupid. I wasn't emotionally strong enough to date another abused productive worker. Even when I tried flirting with another single productive woman, some parasite will always come along and interrupt.
I'm (hopefully?) out of the abused productive worker pattern now, because I've cracked my pro-State brainwashing. I can recognize abusive behavior, but I choose not to implement it. Therefore, it's possible for me to successfully date someone who is an abused productive worker. I'm emotionally strong, but not abusive. I'll be similar to the emotional state/feedback of a parasite, but I'll be genuinely strong rather than faking it. I haven't put the theory into practice yet, but it's an interesting observation. (Don't say "FSK is wrong because he isn't benefiting from his theory." I only figured this out recently.)
When attempting to meet women, it's a good idea for me to provide honest emotional feedback. I don't have to worry about "My future partner will abuse me if I express interest!" I'm able to stand up for myself independently of that. Plus, I'm pursuing women who have the abused productive worker personality type. They probably won't try to force their will on me.
When interviewing for a wage slave job, providing honest emotional feedback to a parasite is probably a bad idea. Inevitably, one of the interviewers on the hiring committee has the parasitic personality type. He will notice that I can see through his manipulations, and veto the decision to hire me. I can't conceal my awareness. Parasites know that someone like me is the biggest threat to their scam. When dating, I only need to convince one woman "FSK is a good guy!" When interviewing for a job, I need to convince a group of people, ONE OF WHICH IS ALWAYS A PARASITE, "FSK is worth hiring." In most/all businesses, the hiring decision must be unanimous, which gives the parasite control. Even if the parasite isn't participating in the hiring decision, he can always manipulate for me to be fired later. Almost *EVERY* business, even a two-person startup, has a parasite pulling the strings.
On some job interviews, the hiring manager said "I thought you were a great candidate. However, some of my other subordinates thought you were unsuitable. Therefore, I'm not hiring you." The parasitic interviewers recognized "If FSK is hired, then he will be my competition! Therefore, FSK should not be hired!" In this manner, the "Hire only if unanimously approved!" policy blocks the hiring of really skilled workers.
Here's an example of parasite control tactics. NLP or "fast seduction" advises "Occasionally criticize the woman, so she feels uneasy and unsure. This way, the woman is always eager for praise from you." That is catering to the abused productive personality. Normal human behavior is "Criticize your partner only when they do something stupid." Parasites take a normal behavior and turn it around into a mind control tactic. By providing random feedback instead of honest feedback, the abused productive worker is kept continually on edge. The abused productive worker is looking for patterns that aren't there, when the real pattern is "This guy is a jerk!"
NLP and "fast seduction" tactics teach people to play the parasite role, rather than teaching someone to be a true leader. There are no true leaders that can be used as a role model. You have to figure it out on your own. It's easier, once you realize the nature of the scam and "Everyone in the world is insane!" The productive workers are insane, because they're abused by parasites all around them. The parasites are insane, because you'd have to be insane to intentionally abuse other people.
The only advice I can give to an abused productive man is "Try to figure out what is normal human behavior." It's like the "opposite George" episode of Seinfeld (fnord!). The way you've been pro-State brainwashed to behave is frequently exactly the opposite of "normal" human behavior.
Some useful bits are:
Attempt eye contact. You can identify potential interest in a stranger by the way she responds to eye contact.
Be somewhat persistent, but not overly persistent. An abused productive woman will not be able to provide 100% consistent "I'm interested in you!" feedback, due to her pro-State brainwashing.
Learn to correlate "appearance/attitude/body language" and "Is this person a parasite?"
Practice on a lot of different of people. A school is a *LOUSY* environment for practicing, because it's the same people over and over again. A subway is a good environment for practice, because you'll almost definitely never see the other person again.
If someone is a jerk, don't let it bother you. Just move on. If someone has the productive personality type but is not receptive, move on. Many abused productive women assume, by default, that a man who flirts with her plans to hurt her, because they're used to dealing with parasites. Many/most women misinterpret friendliness as aggression. My attitude is "I'm not responsible for other people's insanity.", but I give up if they're too insane.
Try a bunch of different things, but don't violate the Non-Aggression Principle.
I'm adding "nymphomaniac" to "high functioning autism" as one of the intelligent women profiles. A "high functioning autism" person compensates by shutting out all emotional interaction. A nymphomaniac can successfully play her role as an abused productive worker, and is also smart enough to realize "Dating a parasite is stupid!"
The nymphomaniac pattern is "Attract a parasite. Realize that dating a parasite is stupid. Start over with a new parasite." The rules of the Matrix make it almost impossible for two abused productive workers to start dating each other, because both are emotionally weak, due to a lifetime of abuse by parasites. Even if two abused productive workers are dating each other, it doesn't work well, because neither partner is emotionally strong. Over time, one partner will fall into the parasite role.
I've mostly cracked my pro-State brainwashing. I probably am emotionally strong, but not playing the parasite role. That's what an abused productive woman really wants anyway, which is to be treated fairly. The "loser nice guy" tactics are really passive-aggressive abused productive worker tactics, and will only attract parasites.
By acting the way I now consider to be "normal", I should be able to help an abused productive woman crack her pro-State brainwashing. It'll probably take awhile. I am noticing more progress when I go out, but I'm not fully successful yet. I've made a lot of progress cracking my pro-State brainwashing, and I should be able to make further progress without another panic/manic attack and involuntary hospitalization.
I'm noticing things I haven't noticed before, which is evidence that I'm still making progress.
The "chemical imbalance" theory of mental illness is a huge mistake/fraud. Once you start realizing subconsciously what's going on, it's very traumatic. You wind up involuntarily hospitalized and labeled with a mental illness. Anti-psychotic drugs interrupt your body's natural healing process, as you crack your pro-State brainwashing. Anti-psychotic drugs are literal blue pills.
In order to crack your pro-State brainwashing, it's insufficient to realize "Taxation is theft!" You also have to understand the nature of productive/parasite human relationships. A sane person would not voluntarily enter such a relationship (as either role). It's a problem when everyone is insane! It should be possible to convert an abused productive worker to "normal". A parasite is used to being in control, and will never change.
The "chemical imbalance" theory of mental illness was probably developed by people with the parasitic personality type! They then hired people with the productive personality type to help them implement their scam! I wonder if anyone knows the truth, and set up this massive fraud on purpose? There are people evil enough to do that! At one time, I would have said, "Nobody really is that evil!", but I'm not sure anymore. The abusive manager at my options trading job, the Rails Advocate, and the Idiot New Manager at that job are all people who would definitely murder millions of people, if they thought they could profit from it. On the other hand, the psychiatry/death industry could also be a massive mistake. Either way, it's wrong, and needs to stop.
It's interesting to notice and understand things that had me completely confused many years ago. If only I knew 15 years ago what I know now! Fortunately, I'm not so old yet that I'm useless."
Posted by FSK at 12:00 PM
www.ask.com/bar?q=what+is+a+nymphomaniac&page=1&qsrc=0&ab=3&title=FSK%27s+G...
from FSK's Guide to Reality-
What the f* was the above? Anyone care to say it in a sentence (preferably a word?)
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I dunno - I Zoned out after the first line.. and just scrolled 10 times down to the first comment -
OMFG you'll choke me to death LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLLLL
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AND I'M NOT ANGRY. I JUST DON'T LIKE YOU. I HAVE THE RIGHT TO HAVE FUN IMITATING AND MIMICING YOU.
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I think you're angry. Most angry people type in upper caps.
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Hey!!!! There is a good possibility that I might be irreplaceable... But since I am not leaving I guess we'll never know! -
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Just a gentle reminder... we are not allowed to drop our links in the discussion board threads.
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guano is different
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I'm not sure no one is irreplaceable, but certainly, if you take the attitude conveyed by such threads, you probably won't be missed. You are who you make yourself - be that overtaken with such a destructive view and indeed, you will destroy yourself to yourself and others.
This place is like the neighborhood bar. You know people, and you'll probably remember them if the alcohol wasn't too heavy, and you chat and have fun and mess around, but at the end of the night, everyone has to go home. Only here, you don't know when the end of the night is and it's different for every person.
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