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Jealousy is the most poisonous poison in relationship. Because of jealousy, happy relationships can turn to tears down relationships. There is likelihood that one of the reasons your partner intend to dump you is because of jealousy. So now, in this Ways To Overcome Jealousy In Relationship – Relationship Advice, I will help you to control your jealousy by revealing several ways to overcome jealousy in relationship......... yourlovetips91.blogspot.com/2009/11/ways-to-overcome-jealousy-in.html

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  1. MikeandTiffany
    There is a big difference between overcoming jealousy (which definitely makes sense) and turning a blind eye to red flags (which you seem to suggest). The way to avoid jealousy isn't either to go into competition with the object of your jealousy or to ignore signs that should be a cause for concern--it's simply to keep the focus where it belongs, on the relationship you're in.

    -Tiffany
  2. HollytheHousewife
    BREAK UP!!!! Sometimes I wish I woulda dropped Ted when I first saw his jealous streak. Not only could we never go to a club or out with a group of friends without him TOTALLY embarresing me. He also would get jealous of my family,or even the dog.
    1. farhanyun91
      well that is meant he loves you like hell.you have to be grateful because being loved so damn much
    2. HollytheHousewife
      Whatever. Love does not consist of constanly having your friends berated or accused by your hubby. Love isn't getting into a fight with a waiter bc he thinks he's checking me out....it sucked!!! And was soooooooo ebarressing
    3. farhanyun91
      nuh.trust me that he loves you so damn much.just that his jealousy is uncontrolled.why don't you ask him to read my article about overcome jealousy.i reveal a few steps to overcome jealousy.ahaks.chill,aite.
    4. MikeandTiffany
      Jealousy and controlling behavior is not a sign of love. It's a sign of insecurity, a need to have power over others, an inability to trust, and a host of other things that make it virtually impossible to have a healthy relationship.
  3. TheCrazyhorse
    Confront your partner about it and discuss on how to keep good relationship. Maintain trust, that's the key to it!
  4. jeremyjanson
    I don't think jealousy is necessarily that unhealthy. If accompanied with grace, real love, and trust, it can even make a relationship stronger.
    1. farhanyun91
      i know.but uncontrolled jealousy will lead you relation to break up.unless if you can take it
  5. time2getdown
    farhanyun91, That's just all a bunch crap.
    Jealous men are pathetic loosers who have insecurity problems. A woman should move on and find a trusting man, or vice versa for a man.
    1. farhanyun91
      Nuh. I don't eye to eye with you time2getdown.what if your gf going to club with other due,won't cha get jealous?i this you will get jealous unless if you don't love her.
  6. Pasquella
    You said in your post: "If you found out somebody is hotter or better than you wants to snatch your lover from you, you shouldn’t be jealous. Get into the head-to-head. Try to be better than him/her."

    When someone tells me that my wife is hot or they hit on her ----it's an absolute compliment to my taste in women.

    Jealousy is the source of low self-esteem. I get self-conscious from time to time, but that's normal. When someone is ALWAYS jealous, sometimes it points out to what they're doing themselves.
  7. Pasquella
    By the way ---great write up! I enjoyed reading your blog!
    1. farhanyun91
      thanks for your compliment.i am really appreciate it . thanks so much
  8. time2getdown
    farhanyun91, Look mate, seriously I couldn't care less who looks at my lady or if they give her a remark about how beautiful she is.
    Why?
    Because I would trust HER! The golden word "HER!"
    I wouldn't be with a woman if I could not trust her.
    As for the men looking at her, so what!. You think they won't be looking when your not around. What are you going to do, lock her up in the house or cover her face up.
    That's just stupid
    And when you say that I couldn't possibly love her cause I'm not jealous, well its for that reason that I would love her because I have nothing to be jealous about. I would be proud not jealous.
    Screw your head on properly mate!
    1. Soirette
      time2getdown, you are absolutely right!
  9. pinkmonkeychatter
    Chain him to the bed!!!
  10. Soirette
    The kind of jealousy you are talking about often leads to abuse and violence. It's about control, not love.

    If one partner is trustworthy, then the other's jealousy is unnecessary and signals dysfunction (or pathology).

    If one partner is not trustworthy, then the other's jealousy won't help and will often make things worse. Maybe time to move on.
    1. time2getdown
      Thank you, I agree totally.
      As a matter of fact I have never known a person to be happy in any relationship when a jealous person is involved, and I have seen it turn into violence either between the man hitting the woman or men hitting other men for looking at their lady partner.
      Testosterone meat heads.
  11. russianmodels
    I would like to add to Soirette's comment.

    It IS about control however it is also about insecurity. Someone who is jealous often times has a low self opinion (low self esteem) whether consciously or not. Often times a man or woman who is insecure with themselves will exhibit jealous behavior because they feel they are lacking something their partner needs and suspects their partner will go elsewhere.

    Combine the two and you have a recipe for GTFOD (Get The ...... Outta Dodge).
  12. farhanyun91
    i am speechless.hahahaha.well i just wanna try to help those who are having a relationship problem because of jealousy.ahaks. that is why i made up my mind to write a few ways to overcome jealousy.btw i am looked forward to receive comments from you guys on my blog about this blog.
  13. Halconite
    Widen your horizons : trust your parner and be confident...

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