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What are the hot looks? ??
Posted by varun67 • 8/14/09 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: beauty, bikini, Boys, girls, Hot, MEN, perfect, rare, Sexy, smart
Due to high volume,cuts,smartness,sexy,damn looking,gym,bikini,and from many other qualities,we have judged guys and girls.Actually what makes a person HOT?Whats your say ?
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A person who's been roasting out in the sun all day?-
Wow. Thats really hot. But it sucks
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some one is really hot when I start feeling hot after looking at her. -
@jokesadda .you got magic eyes. See everyone as hot.don't misunderstand a hot and cool one.
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are you sure that is the reason?? -
Hi chrissMM.Dear am not sure about that.But jokes' eyes have something make everyone a celeb,in their opinion.
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I dunno - in all honesty I quit noticing "HOT" after I met my hubby.
Now it's just people that I see.
Weird.-
@ww
I'm curious as to know how that happened? What made him so different from the rest? I have yet to experience love the way you have.
But I think I know what my problem is: I have to learn to love myself before I can truly love another.
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I find confidence in a man very hot. Someone who isn't afraid to be himself. -
Was that mean its round turn to your hubby ?.That he is very hot,which did every others to get fade out.
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Hmmmm - that's an interesting concept Varun....
I do find him super humongously physically attractive - and he SMELLS just wonderful to me. I could live all day inside his smell.
But - as to when I stopped noticing others.
Hmmmmm....
It's a very long story... so I will shorten it.
I was married to someone else. I slowly and progressively got sick while going to the doctors every single week and no one could figure out what it was. I gained a tremendous amount of weight (about 340 lbs.. or so...)
I kept getting sicker and sicker to the point where I was getting hospitalized and went through EVERY single cancer/test known to man.
Finally figured it out.
Had to go on chemotherapy for HCV which had progressed and got extremely bad. A rare genotype that progressed into massive liver problems and more (I had gotten HCV from a blood product when I was pregnant - long story there too).
My ex husband had been telling me for years it was all in my mind and was complaining when I was too sick to take care of the house or couldn't do things --- and wasn't in the mood to fool around, etc.
When I went on the chemotherapy I had such an awful reaction - my platelets dropped, my hair fell out - I was sicker than ever before. Some days I couldn't walk or get to the bathroom to puke.
My ex left me downstairs in the dark room, by myself and stayed upstairs watching television - and I went to work when I could.
When I puked - he'd leave - and not come back to help me clean or get under warm blankets - if I didn't make it upstairs to eat - he put it in the fridge... and basically let me rot down there.
I don't think he did it to be evil - more that he just couldn't deal with me being sick. He couldn't handle it.
When my current hubby came over and started taking care of me - carried me up and down the stairs - held on to me while I was puking my guts out - and putting lotion on my skin where it rashed out - and then making me go outside and walk and regain my strength - while my ex went out and had affairs - my current was taking care of me... just because he cared.
Then - I had to have a hysterectomy... And my ex let me get on a plane to get to the hospital BY MYSELF - and come back by myself and let me stay in the hospital by myself... That was when I knew I didn't want to be married to him any more.
My current then came over and took me to every doctor appt - made me take walks in the park - and we talked and got to know each other.
I left my ex later.... Not because of my current... just to let you know. But because I wanted to be with someone who loved ME for better or for worse.
And if the shoe had been turned I would have done EVERYTHING in my power to make him better or to help him.
Then my current left for several months... And I felt like a part of me had died inside.
When he came back - it was as if the world was finally right.
He felt the same way.
We lived together for a bit - and then - well - we got married. LOL!
Ever since then - life has just been - well - life. I can't imagine being with anyone else.
When we are together - it's like we are one mind - one body. I mean - we bicker we laugh, we cry, we tell stories to each other... But neither one of us can stand to be away from the other for more than a few hours. I mean - we can do it - but we miss each other.
It's been a few years now - and it hasn't changed.
I've never met anyone like him - nor him me.
We just FIT together.
We have patience for the other's faults... We like each other... and we have so many things in common - but a lot of things that aren't in common - so we're never bored.
We're both full of imagination and creativity.
We give each other space - and we understand each others' moods.
I dunno - for me -it's perfect.
That's the long short story...
I mean there is a ton more - and some day it will ALL be out in the open.
But THAT is the meat of it - minus the personal details.
He's my companion, friend, confidant, lover, fighter...
We make music together - and we totally enjoy talking together... even years later.
Everyone else faded - because no one else really matters...
I guess - I've found what I wanted and needed - and he makes sure that he does the things that keep me interested and vice versa.
I don't see other men as sex objects and I don't need other men to fulfill my desires - because he does all of that.
We openly communicate how we feel - what we want - what we expect - and we make changes - and accept changes very easily.
I guess that's all that there should be in a relationship - at least for me.
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Is that true ? Wait let me read it again please .
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I really got shocked.Is that true?Such a tragic.God. After all you are so lucky,i should say.Because of that understanding and caring person.If you are running on your shoes or moving on the wheels,you will have many followers. But when you are alone,there will be one and only person,who is god's favorite for you.I happy that ,you have recovered well. I will pray for your healthy and fruitful life.By the way what about children ?
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Well, she said she had a hysterectomy. I think that might complicate matters. -
Oh our Daughter splits time between both of our houses - I only live 2 blocks away from his house.
It works out ok...
I love my daughter - she's angry about the divorce - but that's life...
And I am VERY lucky!
ROFLMAO - yeah Voods - well there is that - no children NOW - unless we adopt - but I think we are gonna do just fine with our 3 kitties...
But - I AM on the mend and healing. So that's GREAT.
Without my current hubby - I would be in pieces. -
No i don't think it is an imaginative story.I don't know,i feel like real.I can simply realize your side because you are one who atleast a guidance for me.It was not for anything in return.Isn't ?. Your daughter will get supported and adjusted because of the worst scenarios you had.What is he doing by the way?Is he at home ,near you?
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Ahh - she'll adjust - she knows that I love her, but she's 13... And you know how 13 year old girls can get.
Nah - I think life is like that Varun - you must reach out and touch people and do good if you can. Life is too short to worry too much. My ex is marrying the girl he was having an affair with - next year. I support and hope they have a wonderful marriage - and she is good to my daughter. I hope she can make my ex a very happy man, because he is not an evil man in any way... And he is a very good father as well.
But - I think that everyone should take care of everyone else in our society... online and offline. If you see someone who needs help or needs an answer and you can help them - I BELIEVE you should - if you can. Because some day - it may be you needing the same help. Yanno? -
Its i know WW. I took my time to make any contribution in this short life.I was and i am not enlarged my outsets and tacts. It was just going thru the flow.How many of them criticised me.I never felt giving this up.It was touching and thoughtful at equal time.May your friends find happy on that.I hope you have read this about what i said yesterday. I couldn't keep my word in tact .sorry. www.blogcatalog.com/discuss/entry/the-best-of-bc#comment_1077634
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Imagination-it's all imagination.-
Why do you think its all imagination ?After all she is telling her concepts and likenesses.Whats yours ?You haven't said any !
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I'm answering your question, not referring to WW's story.
What makes another person hot is your own imagination. -
ROFLMAO - I did just kinda plop out my story there huh...
Oh well - Aspot asked me about love and why - so it required some in depth personal explanation to a degree...
Sorry if I put out tmi..
BUT YES!!!
Imagination - how you IMAGINE people is probably the NUMBER 1 reason for how HOT they are. -
Oh.Thats the matter. Sorry,i terribly misunderstood it.Its all imagination?I think you might pointed out the outset factors.But when deeds and character matters,how can a person get acknowledged with some imagination ?
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I have an ENORMOUS imagination. I'm a bit of a dreamer.
Real life is a different story. -
A person with confidence, humor and a natural sense of style and common ssense. -
Me-
You smacked it
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Smacked what?
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Lotusb's concept of hot and sexy . You smacked on it.
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That he did. LOL!
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I was just saying that I am the hot looks. I guess I do fit in with some of these.
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Man.Its there.If you feel you are fitting on some areas,thats it ,you are hot.
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"A definitive responsible to this is impossible and answers could go on forever. Every man has his own strengths and his own issues and insecurities. Moreover, men go through different stages of life and relationships have different stages. What men want in a woman varies widely.
Here are some of the many answers WikiAnswers Contributors have given:
* Men want what they can't have.
* Men look for health (physical, psychological, emotional, fiscal).
* Men look for the outward appearance of physical health, e.g. clear, bright eyes, a body not too overweight and not too underweight, clean lustrous hair, clean nails, clean body, few if any blemishes.
* Men want someone beautiful but "beauty is in the eye of the beholder."
* Men want someone beautiful and we objectively know what this is. A Discovery health program stated that men overwhelmingly, cross culturally, cross generational are visually attracted to women who have a 70% ratio from waist to hips. Meaning waist is 70% size of hips. Beauty contestants across the decades have been this way even though they are much slimmer now than 10-20 years ago. Marilyn and Twiggy were both 70% ratio. It is also interesting to know that this is also an immediate indicator of health.
* Men want a woman who is honest, who he can trust completely, who is not likely to sneak around and sleep around with other guys.
* Someone with similar interests so they have something in common.
* A woman who will make an effort to please him.
* A woman who makes an effort to look her best.
* An appreciation of the man's job.
* Passion
* A woman whose ego isn't bigger than her hairstyle.
* A partner for his life.
* A partner for his soul.
* Someone who is caring. All men want to be looked after.
* Someone who has faith in him.
* A woman who is strong yet sometimes submissive.
* A woman who is strong but does not have an attitude.
* Someone who is not too loud.
* Someone who won't nag him beyond reason.
* A woman who challenges him and is full of the unexpected.
* An interesting woman.
* An intelligent woman.
* A woman who is not dumb (mediocre intelligence is fine).
* A woman who is smart enough to grasp new concepts.
* Someone artistic or creative.
* A woman can take care of herself without feeling that she has to compromise herself in a relationship.
* Someone who suits their individual personality.
* Some guys like an aggressive woman.
* Some guys like silent and reserved type.
* Someone in-shape/athletic.
* Interdependence, so that you trust and need each other.
* A sense of humor.
* A woman with a nice laugh.
* A positive personality.
* Men want a woman who is comfortable with her own sexuality.
* Someone up for action, or willing to get a little kinky in the bedroom.
* A positive personality
* A talent and passion in something worthwhile.
* Men respect and want a woman who knows her own mind; women who are true to themselves.
* Someone relaxed and confident.
* A woman with a good soul.
* A woman who has a great smile and loves to laugh and be herself but can also be intelligent and serious.
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It's a question that has baffled women for ages. What do men consider beautiful in women? Most of us believe men only see looks as beautiful simply because the media believes it is true. They show us busty females with perfect bodies plastered across our television screens, billboards, and posters, or skinny little models posing in barely there undergarments and designer clothing and we automatically think; "The woman of every man's dreams". But ask any guy and you may very well be surprised to learn those perfect bodies and skinny models are far from his dream girl.
Recently, an online survey discovered that men preferred women with an average size body and curves to those whose bodies bared more bone than fat; like the models we see on the runways.
However, even while an average size body did turn their heads, it was actually a woman's personality that men considered beautiful the most. They also think that a woman with self-confidence is beautiful. Kind, caring and sincere were three other attributes that were also considered beautiful in a woman as well as a woman who is willing to listen to him and engage in conversation with him.
And what did they find beautiful as far as looks? When it comes to physical attributes, the eyes have it. Men also confessed that women with natural average-sized breasts were more beautiful than women with breast implants. And when it comes to women's fashion they think we look beautiful in casual clothing verses neat. And what underwear did they find beautiful on a woman? Surprisingly, average and feminine beat out the skimpy erotic panties found on models in adult magazines. Even more surprising, the surveys found that men thought women with a barely there, natural makeup looked more beautiful than women who wear a lot of makeup.
So what gives? Apparently guys are finding out that there's more than meets the eye when it comes to a woman being beautiful. Men would rather get to know a woman and discover that she is beautiful naturally instead of just judging her from the way she looks and finding out that she's really an ugly person on the inside. They're discovering what we've known all along, that true beauty lies within.
And what about all of the wonderful mothers and grandmothers out there? Well smile, because while they might not admit it, a survey found that the men in your life secretly think you're beautiful too!
So does this mean that we'll be saying adios to those perfect and skinny bodies in the media too? Probably not, since the media knows that there's still a whole new generation of young men who are willing to believe that age-old tactic of "Sex sells". Still, we have begun to notice that more and more average and curvy size women are making their presence known in Hollywood and we're loving it!"-
Can I get a 4-5 line summary?
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I was starting to read your article (comment).Its nice at the begining.You deserve a comment after that effort.After reading that we will talk about it. To get a confirmation,it is not copied from any other source,kno ?
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I think the modeling industry has destroyed what "hot" is! I have photographed so many men and women who have so little self confidence in themselves because they where destroyed by a modeling agency. Peopel are told they have to be slim, muscular, clean, big, small, tall, short, white, black, WHO GIVES A CRAP!
"beauty is in the eye of the beholder."-
Yo .you rocks man.You quoted my famous writers saying.In 'work of art' anton checkove suggesting that beauty is in the eyes of beholder. And the matter you said is correct.Fashion concepts and marketing corporates had changed,even destroyed the natural beauty.How about the dressings ?Especially in europeon countries. Are they proper?Whats your say?
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This is a "hot look":
Altering the purpose of forum threads since 1995-
Yeah very much. Do you have more?I like it. It has that charm and its hotty
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Ooops.. wrong spot.
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Varun - I'm a firm believer that NATURAL beauty - as in naked is much more beautiful than all those uncomfortable clothes.
I am not one that see naked as being "SEX" and "EVIL"...
I think of it as - it is how we came into this world - it is the MOST comfortable - and why should I be ashamed of what I am and how my body is?
I am often upset when someone says something about how little clothes someone has on - as if they were a horrible person for wearing little or no clothing.
They are the same person without their clothes as they are with them on - NO?
I do think that there are appropriate places to be naked tho... LOL!
And I think it takes awhile for most people to not think "SEX" if they see a naked body - because we are soooo used to seeing everyone clothed... which is sad.
Anyhow - that's just my take on that (clothing) and lack there of.-
True, WW. No place is more chaste than a nudist colony.
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May be.May you know better than me about the culture and traditions of those people.But from the begining of my childhood i used to see ,gents and ladies are well dressed and well settled with their culture.May be My mind is too small to adjust with some of that you have said. I am not complaining on dressing style in europe or usa.It is their culture.its the part of their life.In other thread i once said that ,i like to go naked to bed.Thats just my private time.I never think nudity is sex.I have seen many nude girls in this hospital.I know they got naked for some reason.That may be an accident or something.But it is never sex or porn to me. In some contexts ,i am with you.
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think a lot has to do with context.
As in - if you are at a Stripper bar and the girl is getting naked - well - yah - duh - that's sex.
But if you happen to see a mother breast feeding her child - that's NOT sex or disgusting. In fact - it's very beautiful and natural.
I mean - in my house - we run around nude when there is just the two of us - it's comfy - we don't care - and the blinds are shut...
But I wouldn't walk outside nude - unless I was at a nude beach.
And when I go to the nude beach - I'm not looking at others thinking - Ooooh gotta be with them.
It's hard to explain.
I think that society (world wide) has put such a taboo on Sex and Sexuality - that it made it seem DIRTY.
When in fact, sex and sexuality are very beautiful things that should be held like ART - like Nature - like beauty.
For example - the best pieces of Roman and Greek Statues are BEAUTIFUL naked people.
You don't think "SEX" when you see them - you see ART, GRACE, BEAUTY - LOVE - and so much more.
But the way the world is taught to use sex as a tool - to degrade it - to make it less and those doing it as something evil or disgusting - well - it's sad.
And to say that Nudity - or lack of FULL clothing - means that you have sex or are a harlot - that is just soooooo awful to me.
Don't get me wrong - in public - I am fully clothed, and rarely wear "sexy" clothing or low cut things - just because that's not my style I prefer big and baggy clothing for comfort.
But when I see a girl wearing short shorts - and a low cut top - I don't immediately think: SKANK.
I think - wow - she is really confident in her body - and feels comfortable in her skin!
And - I FULLY appreciate CLOTHING and CLOTHING styles - I LOVE India silks and the long swirling clothes... They are very pretty.
And I love ASIAN and Mandarin style clothing - it's just so pretty.
And I love Italian Suits - and Jeans - and high fashion as well.
It's just that I don't assign Sex to a human body or the lack of full clothing. I just think it's a personal choice what people wear - or not wear ---- and I would never judge someone for that.
I find humans - of all ages, sizes, races, sexes to be inherently beautiful - clothed or not.
And I don't think there is anything wrong with the dressed - or not.
Yanno?
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Here's what makes a man really hot, to me:
He smiles easily,
Listens to me, laughs with me, likes to eat -
He shaves his face every day
He doesn't stare at my boobs
He doesn't fart in bed!-
Its nice to know your concepts of a hot man.I hope you may having or will have a man with those qualities.I am not sure how long can he take his sight out of those BOOBS.Most of the men are descent first only
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Farting in bed?
Awwww - now that's HALF the fun!
And a lot of giggles....
Haven't you ever played TURTLE?
Where you put the sheets over your spouse's head - and you *poof* - and you watch them freak out looking for a hole to stick their head out of?
LMAO!
(I'm sorry - I find flatulence amusing)
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In a few words? Wonder Woman outfit.-
Impossible is nothing !!
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@prosper . Why don't you talk something ?
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hello all-
@propor7
Hello. Would you like to post an answer to the question posed in this thread? I think that would be a good way to get to know members here and for them to get to know you.
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@varun
What are the hot looks? Actually what makes a person HOT? Whats your say ?
What makes a person "hot" in any culture tends what the majority choose to define as "beauty" or "attractiveness". To a large degree the society I live in has chosen to define "beauty" and "attractiveness" in terms of youthful resemblance to the celebrities of the day, and to natural good looks (a product of genetics) and fitness.
This "hotness" drives huge industries as culturally defined "hot looks" are used to sell products of all kinds. Remarkably, those who least resemble the "hot" models either male or female are eager to purchase products that delude them into believing they will appear to be "hotter" if they use them. They can be found in almost any and every advertisement no matter where one happens to be because advertising is so pervasive in our culture.
That being said, looks which are considered to be "hot" in my culture are not what I relate to or care about in people -- either male or female, either young or old. I'm primarily interested in what's going on inside minds, and on which character traits are being manifested in words and deeds.-
Yea ,thats true TT. Now this generation often sees hot as a body builder model in advertisements.I knew that,there is chance and need for a thread to focus on the real hot profiles.In early post i talked to WW,and was such a wonderful time too.I came to know many facts from the side away from me.As you said its in deeds and words.If you are smart enough,you can judge a person from a single line of taking.What your say ?
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My "hotness," which I had nothing whatsoever to do with creating or maintaining, earned me a substantial part time income for many years. That's why I feel entitled to be cynical about the value of the presumed "hotness" contribution to any culture.
My body was photographed and painted. Some of these physical objects were commissioned and sold to art appreciators who hung them on the walls of their homes and offices. Others were presented in other formats and sold too a different clientele. Without doubt some became masturbatory supports for some people.
Those who commissioned the works and paid for them and those who purchased them in other formats never met me and knew nothing about me. Their interest and appreciation in me as a person did not exist. There interest was focused only on the "hotness" of the physical container that I dwell in. -
Double Ditto.
I was a model when I was younger. The way I was treated because of my looks was astounding. When I got older - or when I gained weight - the complete opposite treatment happened and it was completely SHOCKING to me.
I was the same person - was I not?
So, I too, have questioned "LOOKS" as a basis for being "HOT".
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@WW. I am always on the proper channel. My hot means hot in all sense.It defies a value of life,personality,range,money and many more.But being on a master side ,i need to check for both answers.Isn't it ?
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RIGHT HERE.
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An example of a chromosome combination that produced a "hot" male, who is still youthful, and that also counts a lot when it comes to being considered "hot" in out culture, doesn't it? The irony is that the model did nothing to acquire either good looks or youth. The only personal contribution he made to his "hotness" seems to amount to working out and staying fit.
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Lola,you are a professional writer and you are specialized in hot bits too.Its a real talent to wake up and bring normal readers with you with hot topics only.That pic always shows a 'mad of man' concept.I noticed TT was moving on to that.No doubt it was exposing a man's years of practice and dedication for full and better outfits.Let get it from others also.
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@TT and also having a big dick. I can see the outine from here. MAN I LOVE ME SUM CHOCOLATE!
V i don't care. he is FINEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!! I'd fuck him in a sec.
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@lola . I know this can happen.And am always a fan of these attitudes and bold.
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STOP LINK DROPPING!
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i refuse to accept this!!
and yes, stop dropping link doodoo.
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@brum .Please it may affect this thread.stop link dropping and make meaningful and unique comments,and take the readers to you.
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Why we are just hanging on mind,deeds,words etc.Can anybody tell how a well finished gym can have a typical hot look ?.I never thought of being hot in that sense.
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Hmmm depends. I don't go for the muscle look - never did.
Toned - OK - but muscle? Ick --- I would rather my man spent more time ON me - than on any machine....
But back to "HOTNESS" to me - it's the personality. If you can sparkle and shine - it doesn't matter. I guess if I was going blind anyway - it wouldn't matter what ANYONE looks like...
It's got to be that SPUNK - that uber confidence - that utmost sincerity - the total honesty - the flirtatiousness without being rude. The calm vector. The ability to match me intellectually and playfully... THAT'S HOT. -
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Well things are getting hot in here lol
/cold showers
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I would like to hear the definitions of 'spunk'
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Try this www.google.com/
spunk (n.)
audacity, boldness, courage, determination, firmness, fortitude, guts, heart, kindling, mettle, nerve, punk, resolution, spirit, steadfastness, tenacity, tinder, touchwood
spunk (n.) (colloquial)
backbone, courage, daring, grit, gumption, moxie, nerve, sand, guts (colloquial)
spunk (n.) (vulgar slang)
ejaculated semen
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Spunk is a freak young dare devil,can do any dare and freaky things,which defines the margin.Who can do a live death,accident,suicide attempt,fight,attack,rape,stunts,and many death defining acts like that is a real Spunk.I got this from my Mexican friend.How you say?Is this the Hot of youngsters?
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I don't know what you are on about.
The correct definitions for "spunk" are above. The desirable body shapes, facial features, etc. that constitute so-called "hotness" are well known.
Generally speaking, youth are considered to be "hot" based on their physical appearance and their preferences in fashion, hairstyles, accessories, music, etc. Ours are youth dominated cultures ie. there are many industries that aim to supply the needs and desires and/or create the needs and desires for products and services that youth prefer.
So, may I please ask what gives rise to your interest in "hotness". Are you "hot"? Are you looking to meet someone who is "hot". Do you have a "hottie" blog?
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Dear TT. I was not running on the dictionary.It was some myths in their place.And i shared those here.I do welcome all kinds of comments. And i hope you saw this www.blogcatalog.com/discuss/entry/what-are-the-hot-looks#comment_1081595 . My blog and me are always HOT.
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Victoria's Secret -
I love nerds...tall, thin, glasses, unruly hair, and slightly socially inept...That's hot!! Talk to me nerdy!!!-
I want to use my level 4 magic wand on you.
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OOhhh baby..tell me more about your filthy dungeons and fiery dragon.
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I'm going to gain the Dwarfs support and raid the city of Uranus
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What are the hot looks?
I'm the standard. Whatever I'm wearing.-
Which is...??? I need a mental picture.
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Well, I've been told I look like Al Pacino-only slimmer.
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Whoo-ah!
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