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What Are The Visual Cues Women Use to Attract Men?
Posted by Gallego71 • 2/06/08 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: attraction, hair, ladies, visual cues, women
Okay ladies its time to fess up! What are those visual cues? Is it the glancing eyes, twirling of the hair?
Let us fellas know!!
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I've never been one for cues. I am outspoken and tend to just let the guy know I'm interested. Takes the guesswork out for the guys. It worked on my hubby anyway.
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LOL! Yup, I'm the same way. When I finally decided to move from "friend" to "Significant other" with my now-husband - I just walked over to him, gave him a big hug, and kissed him. Oh, wait, I didn't walk over - sorry that was the second, "just to be sure kiss". I was driving and pulled the car over.
Then I laid a smackaroo on him. -
Yep... helps to sweep them off their feet. Move in for the kill before they know what's going on.
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Extended eye contact and a good set of pheromones. I only smile if he smiles first. I've been told i check guys out the way guys check girls out and that seems to work.
Yes... and being straightforward about interest helps too. Women shouldn't be afraid to be straightforward.-
As a guy, pheremones definitely wheel me in. I must have a strong sense of smell or some overactive olfactory thing going on. It's always been that way for me. Time magazine just had an article about it and my wife was like "oh my god- that's you!"
I don't know if any of you are into this sort of thing and I don't mean to get off topic, but the whole pheremone recognition thing kind of ties into my zodiac signs - both Taurus the bull (very animalistic) and the Chinese Earth Horse. -
It seems to be a matter of chemistry... certain people are more in tune to certain types of pheronomes... but i get that all the time from guys... they smell something and they like it. Always surprises me to hear this. No one else seems to notice other than certain guys.
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Yup, I'm usually the first they've encountered like that. It's weird and it does feel almost primal. Like my wife jokes, I have no defense mechanism for an asssault by her pheromones. I've also noticed that her levels of pheromones rise and fall over the month. I don't want to be inappropriate, so that's really all I can say.
edit: obviously I can't spell pheromones. -
I'm also very aware of this cycle of pheronomes and use it to my advantage. Nothing wrong with that. Do all women's pheronomes get your attention, or just certain ones? Just trying to figure out how chemistry based it is.
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I'm not sure...There are definitely women whose pheromones seem to be stronger.. I actually have some theories on this. I'm afraid I might offend some if I shared them, and I'm certainly far from an expert on the subject.
I'll just say this: In my observation, the more "feminine" and less "masculine" the woman seems to be, the stronger the pheromonal attraction.
I'll also say that certain areas of the body (some of them a tad surprising) seem to be hotspots for them. My guess is that these are natural release points.
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signs of submission
Exposing the neck (tilt)
Exposing the inside of the wrist
open arms and legs
watch for dilated pupils
self touching - such as hair stroking
how close is she willing to get (the three foot comfort barrier)
Subtle accidental touches
Feet always point to what the mind is thinking about.So if you are boring her watch her feet point towards the door.-
fascinating. it's a science. Yet I think that women are learning some new techniques... one of them being... going straigt in for the kill.
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When I was single, all I had to do was hold eye contact for a few seconds and smile a certain smile. Guys are easy. -
I always enjoyed a challenge.
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Boobs!-
Well, despite the value I place on intelligence, education, and creativity, I have to say that that method has always been terribly effective with me, possibly far more effective than is good for me.
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There's 3 rules...
1. The 3 second eye extended eye contact.
2. She reaches out to touch you.
ie. - hand, leg or even around your torso
3. An experienced woman is able to show expressions with her smile with a slight head tilt.
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