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What Do You Miss About Being A Teenager
Posted by faithsju243 • 12/17/08 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: kingball, teenage years
Do you miss anything about being a teenager, the freedom, lack of responsibilities?
Me I miss Kingball tournaments.
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First kiss? Prom? All these things were absent from my experience as a teen. My entire existence was to study, stay out of trouble (as there were plenty who wanted to harm me), go home as soon as I could, and do the chores. The only "good" times was when I took home all A's because my father would be ready to punish me if I brought home an A-minus.
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Going round to the house where your girl friend is babysitting, emptying the fridge then spending the rest of the night kissing and trying to get my hand down her top.
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The constant abuse in every form, the child slavery at the hands of my mom & her mafia b/f, eventually living on the street, using my body (on occassion) to get in from the cold, the lack of being adequately prepared to lead a functional life, the leering pedophiles, the suicidal depressions (& attempts,) the constant stress & complete insanity.
No, wait...I don't miss ANY of that! -
Not very much, frankly. Maybe getting to have more than a few days vacation at a time. Otherwise, I'll take now, please.
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the feeling of immortality
the ability to go where i want the moment i felt like it
not having any bills to pay
having cats -
Utterly nothing. Now, all you have to do is ask what you Don't miss about being a teenager, and I will have many many responses.
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The schedule to have an hour and half to play. When class was in it was time to study but when I had break/lunch it was nothing but volleyball.
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My teen years were by no means tragic...but I did not have a strong sense of self, I feared the unkown, felt angst about my peers, didn't realize that just about every other teen felt the same way. I now work with troubled teens, and am thankful every day that I have grown into a confident, fully aware adult.
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It's kinda disturbing realizing how long it's been since I last was a teenager. It doesn't really feel like it's been all that long.
That said, those were pretty terrible years for me, so if I miss anything, it's pretty much the sense of still being so young and lack of acid reflux problems so I could eat all the spicy foods I wanted without any problems. -
What I miss:
the blank canvas, I didn't realize how great it was that so much future was ahead and didn't take all of the right steps to create better memories. If I knew my choices at that time would always have an effect on me, I wouldn't have treated it so lightly.
High school is a crzy institution where you feel as if everything will be over in about four years so you just get it done and over with but I always felt like life is life period...that's four years of your life...but even though I saw that, I still got caught up in different antics that I basically shouldn't have.
There were a lot of successes and a lot of achievements. I definitely graduated on time and with special honors. Still, what does that mean when you can't go back to the day you lost a friend or got involved with the wrong person or just didn't stay true to yourself?? You don't forget those and the effects of them even though you may forget what you learned in fourth period. -
I also guess I had an unhealthy anxiety about my future, rather, a strong desire to be successful. Now, as an adult, it's turned healthy and I've recovered and restored an outlook where I realize I have a RESPONSIBILITY to make the right choices in the present for the future. That's the difference between then and now and that's why it's capitalized .. growing up is accepting responsibility for everything you do and everything you are.
To sum it up, I was happy as a teen but lost it and regained it.
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