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Ok My dear sweet hubby came home in a bad mood from work. He is just being down right ugly. What do you do when your SO does this?

I left and went for a drive and brought back dinner. I was not going to cook with him fussing the whole time.

I almost locked him out side with the dogs.

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  1. scenexg
    relaxing back rubs are always in season. let him talk about it while you rub him out lol.
  2. AroundTheWaygirl
    Listen to music, and turn it up real loud. Act like he's not even there
    1. scenexg
      I'm sure ignoring him will make him feel oh so much better lol.
  3. HollytheHousewife
    I would say man I can't wait for you to go back to work. I can't stand it when someone brings there day home with them.
    1. scenexg
      isn't part of a relationship being there for each other? I don't think that's cool at all to just be so opposing to someone being stressed about something. I wouldn't want somebody pushing me away just because I had a rough day.
  4. HollytheHousewife
    Well when your spouse comes home and takes his day out on you isn't fun. There have been plenty of times Ted has come home,and bc he had a bad day he was gonna make sure mine is bad to,like dammit you know I don't like spaghetti,or what n the hell did u mop with..u know that s*** gives me a headache etc...

    Yea days like that I wish he would just go right on back...
    1. amybyrd21
      yep. Today was one of his bad days. He gets to be just like that. I said we were having left overs for dinner and he handed me money and said he wanted BK. Ok normally I dont mind but it is 30 miles from the house and I do not feel good today.But I humor him so I can get away from his ill butt behaivor.
    2. HollytheHousewife
      Well there ya go... I would look for excuses to let me leave. Wasn't gonna happen though. When ted had a bad day he was gonna make sure everybody around him did to.

      Usually though it would end up with me lettin him know what he was doing in a not so nice way,we would waste another 20 min. Arguing over how I made his day worse,then we would go to bed.
  5. tcinvestor
    give him space, do your own thing, let him vent and calm down, eat & chill.
    1. LGramlich
      Agreed. And if he vents in my direction, I do my best to support him.
  6. Agit8r
    grumpy people need sex...
    1. amybyrd21
      you mean I have to give it to him more than once a month? lol I will tell him that and see what he says. i bet he agrees
    2. Agit8r
      or buy him some nice lotion
  7. crazyTsu
    What's SO? Son?
    1. Agit8r
      significant other
    2. crazyTsu
      Ya that..

      I don't know really what to do. I try cracking some poor ass joke. Or say some platitudes which she rejects beforehand. Then I just leave her alone to deal with it. Sometimes a hug helps
  8. zytzef
    Just bore some one to death, it's the best stress relief. Go somewhere very very far away, when half way, say fuck it, and come back.
    My stress relief ways on my blog
  9. leadprovider
    I eat, I smoke and then I sleep. And when I woke up I smoke and eat again. =)
  10. fazrul
    I would like to be alone..either i go paintings or i drive..juz to get back to my normal state of mind~
  11. lotusb
    I spoil myself. I eiher indulge in some really good vegetarian Mexican food, watch a SUPER SAPPY movie, or get plastered with a cute guy (or my bf if I have one at the time) and have drunk sex.

    Or I call my masseuse and get a 60-minute rub down.


    OH...I just re-read the post...lol. What the hell does SO mean??

    I'd do the same above only in reverse. Dress up like a naughty grocery store checker and ask him if he needs "ass-back"...I dunno... Fk his brains out.
  12. nothingprofound
    Listen to her complaints while I daydream about something else. When the subject rolls around to me, I politely excuse myself.

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