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What is the best way to make up with your ex
Posted by juliuss • 10/16/09 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: relationship, the magic of making up
have you ever make up with your ex? what is the best way to do it.
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I heard sex works well.
I also heard it's the best sex, like ever. -
It depends what the problem was in the first place.
First, accept that people don't change. So if it was something at the core of your or your SO's personality, give up now.
Secondly, if it was something that would be assisted by an outside, unbiased voice, get counseling.
Third, if it was a silly tiff, just get together and talk about it. If you were wrong, apologize. If the other person was wrong, figure out if you can forgive.
That's a start. -
If trust has been broken, it's going to be a lot of hardwork. It will mean... back to the drawing board. I had someone abused my trust many years ago and no matter how much he tried to make it up for me, I just couldn't trust him again. But hey, different people, different strokes. -
Oops,in my previous post, I meant to say that *make-up sex* is the best sex ever. At least supposedly.
What do you mean by "making up with your ex" though?
Getting back together and pursue the relationship, or staying/becoming friends after the break-up?
Because I think they are two very different things.
For me, there's usually a reason why a guy becomes an *ex"; it means things weren't working out; there have been very few times in my life when I have tried to get back into a relationship with an ex. And when I've tried, it's failed.
However, in my experience, friendship with an ex is possible. Both parties might need a some time to cool off and get over one another, but I've managed to stay in very good terms with most of my exes, although it's not always been easy. -
fvck them! -
It depends. Usually they are an ex for a reason. I have offered second chances before and it has never worked out. -
Let her out of the handcuffs. -
Encourage him to find a new girlfriend, so he leaves you alone.-
Hatingtherain, what if he is still in love with her and can not get over her even if he is with another girl?
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Play with your best shot - what did she like the most about you? Can you make her memory flash back? Can you be that person to her again? -
Why would I want to make up with him?! -
the best way is to start to see the world through his/her window, when you do that you'll be able to understand that we are all different and we all view the world from a different perspective. You may not agree with the world view of your ex but you will be able to have greater patience and tolerance of the diversity which exists between people. And by this simple action there may be a hope of building a better relationship of some sort with the ex. Until then, you are just pushing your own wheelbarrow of junk around the world, not realising that you might be bashing your barrow into others.-
Very interesting philosophy.
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Very interesting philosophy.
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In front of a mirror, if not you can mess up the eye shadow and end up looking like a clown with Parkinsons. -
just don't ... look for someone else, that is the best way to make it better-
yep.. thats my own policy. go for another one ASAP - the more you drag the more u worsen it
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Don't. Like Suzie said. You broke up for a reason, odds are that the reason still exists. -
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thats link dropping.. unlike guano, which I can drop at will! splatch!
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sorry--just thought it was funny--it's not my link :0) Actually, if I were a little more computer literate, I'd have just pasted the image-damn my stupidity! -
<img src="http://api.ning.com/files/LrOSp13wGAdRF*Z3uRRGtXw5E3i-WGpywE1hSsK6Qsc6IKSeMbfUqM8tu8fvB1EZGCOrjp0UaXQkU824XnDaBSFZA1DoOo3b/RanIntoMyEx.jpg" width=300 height=250 />
copy and paste this and hopefully it will work ok
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If you like it, you should have put a ring on it -
yep I had made up with my ex, One day i suddenly bumped into her, i was just normal and light. I asked bout her wheraouts and was humourous at the same time. Nad yo know we were really enjoying he same way we used to enjoy when we were together...
Then the next day I got her messages saying " Thanks for making me smile and ur are really sweet. Could we b frnds" I accepted then we started meeting each other again and during this period i never discussed about our breakup. We were once again together like friends and on my birthday, u know she proposed me.
Dont know how well will it work for you...
proposal-ideas.blogspot.com/2009/11/how-to-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-i-want...
U can get few tips here too.. -
First, think very carefully about why you're not currently with him/her. Has anything changed? Do you have any realistic reason to believe they will? Do you REALLY want to get back with him/her, or are you just having a hard time letting go? -
Tell them you love'em. Words of wisdom never hurt. -
Nothing says I-once-cared-about-you-and-stupidly-I'm-feeling-that-way-again better than a hearty mug of hemlock. -
yes and I regreted it. They are ex's for a reason. No matter if I am the dumper or the dumpee. I will never go back again. I wasted to much of my life that way.
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