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When real life and online life collide.
Posted by crpitt • 7/07/09 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: friends, interwebs, meet ups
When I started blogging I never expected to actually make friends with strange folks on the interwebs. Nearly three years of blogging has changed my mind totally on what type of people actually use the internet and have made some really great friends.
They are vastly different folks in regards to gender, politics, continents, age and life experiences but we still manage to connect. I suppose that is what my friendships have always been like in real life too.
I suppose meeting up with those people in real life was in some way proof that I am a good judge of character, or at least that the people I have chose to meet up with represented themselves genuinely on-line.
This is why I have always had no qualms about meeting people from BC in real life and was wondering what you all thought about it? Especially when I have mentioned planning a trip/meet up previously.
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- I'd love to have you visit me but Colorado is nowhere near to where I live.
Where I live is very inconvenient and expensive to get to. Also once you are here the conveniences and comforts one has on hand in cities do not exist.
I also love to be able to go to something like a large BC blogging and networking type of conference, where I could meet members of BC from all over the world. -
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I have met people that found my little site and live nearby and they are super cool people. No one from BC though I was in Agit8r's town this weekend but he was out of town
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I have several real-life friends I met on line through blogging.
If you ever decide to holiday in South Africa, let me know. I have a lovely guest suite and Cape Town is the best place in the country for a vacation! -
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I'm brand new at this, only three months, so I haven't met anyone. I'm sure it would be wonderful if I did. I'm pretty layback, and get along with almost everyone. Although these days, I do keep pretty much to myself.
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I'd just like to strike a note of caution to any BC'er thinking about meeting someone from online. I met a person right here on BC and after a period of intense "grooming" by them we met.
To cut a long story short things were said and I was touched inappropriately in an place that it is only appropriate for appropriate people to inappropriately touch, and being as this person wasn't an appropriate person I deemed it inappropriate for them to be touching a fellow BC member in an inappropriate way.
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Actually it's 95 percent of my underneath side including all 148 anise flavoured nipples but the most inappropriate way to touch an Aardvark is internally. A good rule of thumb guide is "If it feels like a nipple or is next to impossible without the liberal use of lubricants then it's is probably wrong."
Oh yeah and whatever you do don't touch the ears that's where an Aardvark's anal stink glands are located.
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You know, funny, but I'd discovered I was a TERRIBLE judge of character.
I mean, I met in person this CRPitt I thought I was friends with online-- and she was just HORRIFYING. I had to ditch her right in the middle of Pennsylvania. So impossible to put up with! -
I have met one person in person. and connected with a few others off BC. I think they have all been wonderful people, and I'm extra-glad that I had the opportunity to meet them. There are a few more I'd like to meet up with, but time and travel seem to always pose a problem. Some day!
(Sorry for touching you Anin, but I was told that aardvarks like that sort of thing) -
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I am presently working out the details for meeting a friend who's going to be coming from Ireland and will be staying over at Niagara Falls an extra day just so we can sit and chat for a few hours. I've met people from such far away lands as England, Ohio, Florida, California, Wisconsin, Michigan, and Pennsylvania too
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I have never met anyone from online, but there are quite a few people from BC that I would not hestitate to meet. I heart (some) of you guys and gals.
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I am so looking forward to our meet-up next year! I can't wait to meet some of the people I spend so much time speaking to online!
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I live right near Buffalo, cold doesn't bother me too much!
two years back we went to WI first and went to The House on The Rock, it was great. The first day of the Christmas show and we stayed at the Inn and had the place to ourselves. There were three elderly couples too but they stayed in their rooms and we had the pools and bar to ourselves. We'll do HoTR again but for the regular season, to see the whole thing a different time. -
It wasa little overwhelming. I'd like to take two days next time. We obviously loved the music machines, especially the large Japanese machine. page 7, second pic
www.thehouseontherock.com/HOTR_Attraction_PhotoGalleryShow.htm
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There are a few people on BC that I have been trying to convince to move up north with me
So far, I haven't got them convinced yet but soon....
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Hmmmm ... I wouldn't suggest Vancouver as a final destination to anyone who doesn't have pockets and accounts full of money. Granted it would be a good meetup place because it has an international airport but accommodation there is extremely expensive.
I believe Victoria would be even better as far as finding really good conference facilities in a gorgeous setting and its a less hectic and expensive place to visit.
I'd suggest Vancouver Island from almost everyone who actually wants to move to the Canadian coast, or who wants to take a wonderful vacation they will never forget. Islanders and mainlanders have different priorities and have established quite different cultures and communities. For Anok and perhaps some others who may wish to relocate to places where artists and musicians colonies exist, then I would suggest the smaller islands have the kind of culture and communities that they would find a "fit" in.
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I've met a number of people (not from BC, mind you) from online. What you tend to find is either they're precisely what you expect or the complete opposite: it's rare there is middle ground.
If there was a BC event in Europe, I'd seriously entertain the idea of attending it.-
@Still
Well, I rarely drink, but a pint at the Jerusalem Tavern is always a good idea:
www.stpetersbrewery.co.uk/london/default.htm
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The few people I met off forums had excellent writing and or thinking skills. At the time, I was looking to improve my own writing skills. At least one of those encounters has been groundbreaking - if not earthshattering.
Nowadays, I do not exclude meeting a forum Bimbo, nor a semi-intelligent girl for that matter.
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Hmm I haven't met any BC'rs, but 90% of my photographers come from a site called model mayhem. I also have met people who were on myspace that had mutual real life friends and got involved with organizations for events from the net. I guess it's okay, I just have never done it... though I never really see any Pennsylvanians or Marylanders here
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Hey Claire!
I have met several people that I have had online relationships with--both through my blog and through my job teaching classes online. I've met colleagues and students (which is not so unusual) but I have also met quite a few people through BC and my blog.
I feel you can develop REAL and STRONG relationships online as you can face-2-face. In fact, a couple of my strongest (now mostly face-2-face) relationships were first developed online. I have one good friend that I see practically every time I'm in San Francisco that I met through BC. She's become a great friend.
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I would definitely go to that, ST--I LOVE white water rafting (I grew up in MT afterall!) and furthermore, my sister lives in telluride. Where you planning to go rafting? I will most definitely try to coincide a visit to my sister at that time. I'd love to meet you too! You're pretty interesting yourself!
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Claire--we loan out the place in Maine, you know! Seriously. I know you think I am kidding--but I am really not.
But if you want a place to stay in either Boston or CA--whatever coast we are on, you are welcome to stay with us--we have more than enough room! I'm serious again here!
It's empty too much of the time and it really gives Les and I a lot of joy to see other people enjoy our magical place in Corea-by-the-Sea. It's absolutely beautiful. -
Please do, Claire--I am really looking forward to meeting you. Les and I had hoped to get to the UK this spring--but too many problems with business kept us from doing that (this damn recession!). We are actually hoping to come in the fall now--but nothing is concrete. I will definitely let you know if we get to Liverpool.
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Yes, we were supposed to come in April--but Les's company has been having some serious recession problems. Last month, he had to lay off over 30 employees, which really broke his heart. We scaled back travel plans--he's trying to save his company. Things ARE looking better so hopefully we will get there in the fall. We usually visit the UK at least twice a year. He visits more often--I usually accompany him a couple of times a year. His company actually has a satellite office in London.
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You are on! I actually know London fairly well. I've been to London at least 25 times--and I once spent 2 months in a small, cozy flat just off Carnaby Street. It was one of the best summers of my life.
London is the best place for theater--and I used to be an actress--and a Shakespearean one at that! Any actor HAS to love London--it's the best theater in the world (and this most definitely includes Broadway).
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I plan to meet some BCers sometime. I havent met anyone yet but next snowboard season i will be meeting a bunch of people at tahoe.
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Only some of them. You have to be like a real moron and stick your head in their burrow or play with a dead one to catch it. Oh, or the fleas jump onto your pets. That's the other way.
www.cdc.gov/ncidod/dvbid/plague/qa.htm
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Well I talk to a lot of people on the phone from bc, it's fun. Not to mention they have taught me soooooo much about computers,and just being online. I hear people say all the time that being online is seperate from real life,but its not for me. I mean people are people,right?
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Um, yea.... I was trying to talk endless into going to spring river with us in aug.
Also I'm going to sgp conference in nashville in sept,and some of the girls from there are gonna split the cost for the luxury suite @ gaylord opryland....I only know them from online to but we talk everyday -
Oh yea....that is what life is supposed to be about. Well maybe not fun all the time but definately getting up going places,and learning about different people....I love it,and think just a year ago all I knew was my family,but with the computer,in just 1 year I have met and learned soooooooo much.....I love its so exciting!!!
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Jersey?! No way, baby, you gots to come to New England Jersey is not in New England!
And who says you wait in traffic? In the cities, you walk or take the subway/metro - it's cheap, it's easy, it's a ride AND a show! (Everywhere else the driving is usually quite easy). Besides, you can com ehere and get a custom bike
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Hell no I don't walk! And, I'll pass on the subway. I rather like not being stabbed and having my wallet jacked. I also like personal space. New England, New Jersey, New York, New Hampshire it's all the same. Obviously the old England, Old Jersey, Old Hampshire and Old York sucked, so those guys called for a "do-over" and still messed it up
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Oh, jerk is a more common term for being an a-hole. But wanker is a particular meaning--so we used it a lot in the sex industry. We used to call the lookie lou's that used to come into the escort service 'wankers' also.
We don't call a-holes wankers--we do call them jerks. But we call a wanker a wanker.
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Arkansas,and no giant bugs but there are misquitos,but we go canoing and rafting down the rapids,and drink a few on the way down. We always rent about 3 or 4 cabins depending who all goes
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So far I have only met bloggers from Mauritius (that's where I live) and we are currently organising a bloggers event at the beach for this Saturday. I'm really looking forward to that.
I would have loved to meet folks from BC as well, perhaps someone who's roaming about in the Indian Ocean? If ever you're on holidays in the island of Mauritius, do let me know.
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I haven't met up with anyone I met online, but I'd love to soon. I definitely trust and care about my online friends.
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I have met two people I met online, and one of them I consider to be one of my best friends ever now.
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