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Do you know any twins? Are they alike or not?
Posted by myriadlife • 9/02/08 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Am fascinated by twins but have never really known any, what's your story?
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Back in the late '50s my jr. hi. newspaper ran an article about our 15 sets of twins...15!
I had several of the twins in my classes, most of them identical girls. The girls from Indonesia were very alike...even their handwriting was identical. The pair of girls from England were very different...even though they were identical, one was taller than the other, and much more gregarious.
I think it depends on two things: are they identical and did their parents treat them like individual siblings or as a monolithic pair? Studies of identical twins separated at birth and reunited in adulthood have turned up astonishing similarities in their tastes and preferences, beliefs and values. And children can be socialized to be part of a pair (and therefore similar) rather than independent individuals.
The short answer is: it depends. -
My wife is a fraternal twin who looks, acts, speaks, dresses, thinks nothing like her sibling.
The differences in fact are so profound I didn't believe they were even related at first meeting.
One has thick, blonde hair and blue eyes the other (my wife) has dark hair fine hair, with dark eyes.
But even in personality, interests, mannerisms, they vary greatly. -
My cousins are twins, nearly identical. Their mother always dressed them the same as small children, even though they had different interests and personalities.
When they went to college, one went to Notre Dame. Her sister came to campus for a visit, unannounced. She spent most of the day touring the campus before surprising her sister at her dorm room.
My cousin the student had to spend the next few days explaining to friends why she didn't recognize them on campus. They had tried to interact with the visiting sister, but because of those years of forced indenticality (is that a word?) my cousin had never told a soul she was a twin. -
Yes I have identical twin boy cousins who cannot stand each other and don't really have that close psychic connection like some other twins do. After many years it's still hard for me to tell them apart. So if the twin doesn't have his girlfriend or wife with him then I'm not sure which one he is. My family can all tell them apart though.
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I'm a twin. I have a twin brother and we are nothing at all alike. I'm a married SAHM (stay-at-home-mom) juggling play dates and attending swim meets on the east coast and he's a bachelor living the player life on the west coast in Las Vegas. He's about a foot taller than me and except for our eyes (and our old noses, prior to rhinoplasty) you would never know it to look at us that we're even related, much less twins.
Our personalities are entirely different as well.
When we were growing up, we were not close with each other at all. Now that we're older, we are much closer. -
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