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Who Are "You" When You Are "Alone".

Posted by red86 • 6/03/09 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: dream, i, life, love, Me, my self, realize, repent, you

Sometimes in life, we can't control some situations that we might not want.

We cannot change the fact that sometimes we
need to excel in a different kind of dimensions.
whether it's our "emotions" or the people we want to hang with; to the things we want and of course to excel with our character (who we are?).

but how?

this is the time when we realized that-
"we have to be alone sometimes" to know more our selves
-to learn from our selves.

"what are the things you think of?"
and "what will you do next' after a day or a night with yourself?

now it's your chance to tell the world.

"WHO ARE YOU WHEN YOU'RE ALONE?"

User Comments

6/03/09

nothingprofound

A drifter and my best friend.

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1. 6/09/09
  
  red86
  
  we sometimes find peace when we are alone sometimes...
6/03/09

jyotishman

The Other Me.

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6/03/09

HollytheHousewife

I'm hardly ever alone,so when I am I am still me,just with a bigger smile on my face. I don't even get to take a bath by myself anymore.

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1. 6/04/09
  
  red86
  
  but still you have a little time of collecting your point of views
  in life where you can find a little peace within.
6/04/09

SillyReviews

Happy for a while.
Creative.
Productive.
Lonely after a while.

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1. 6/04/09
  
  red86
  
  : ( aaaaaaaaaaaaahhh
  
  but it's a healthy process being a human.
6/04/09

tuanhnguyen

A quiet man. Sit down, read a book, and think about life.

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1. 6/04/09
  
  red86
  
  they call it "a time for reflection"
2. 6/04/09
  
  Halconite
  
  ..or discernment...
6/04/09

Halconite

"Half me". I am only "whole" around my friends and even enemies...

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1. 6/04/09
  
  red86
  
  that's normal, we shoild have a reservation between ourselves and to those people around us...
  
  it's a way of balancing our self being a man.
6/04/09

hatingtherain

I think, or read, or watch a movie, or write, or sculpt, or paint, or eat something really decadent, or fantasize about almost anything, or work

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1. 6/04/09
  
  red86
  
  that's good...
6/04/09

IntoTheAzureSea

I am a person who likes to be alone because of all the chaos and bullshit that I face for the most part of my life.

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1. 6/14/09
  
  Ress
  
  mmm I'm the same
6/04/09

lnclark1950

Sharing who we are when no one is around can be threatening because it is then we reveal our true nature. For years people thought I was one thing but when I was alone I was something they would not expect. Our wounds of life often take us into dark spaces when we are alone. Today my wounds have healed and I find myself drawn to places like blogcatalog to share who I am instead of trying to hide it from the world. I am a wounded man who has found healing through a relationship with my savior Jesus. His example as a real man has helped me move from a life of self focus to outward focus. He was a manly man not some whimpy guy. He was a guy who had fun and was not afraid to hang with people who had a dark side. I am striving to be the same.

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1. 6/04/09
  
  red86
  
  some people might not understand some others principles. maybe also because we have different beliefs and understanding about existence.
  
  the best thing we could do is to focus on the things we have today...
  learn from each day. whether it brought us pain or joy...
  
  that's why sometimes we need to be alone, to learn, to know and to gain within ourselves..
  
  thanks for sharing.
  
  red.
6/04/09

jafabrit

Not much different than hatingtherain, I read, paint, craft, play with the dog, do my embroidery outside on the porch , write letters, listen to bbc radio, enjoy the silence, watch a movie, play with the dog.

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6/04/09

exit2013

I am a 'Time Traveler'.

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6/04/09

chicky401

I am pretty much the same person alone or with people. Only real difference is when I am alone there is nobody else to laugh at me, just me

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6/04/09

aningeniousname

I'm Gloria Van Den Crabbendorf the fourth wife of Hamilton Cavendish "Squeaky" Van Den Crabbendorf, heir to the Van Den Crabbendorf fish stick millions.

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6/04/09

MissSuzie

I am the same around everyone as well as when I'm alone. I do seem to get even more silly when left by myself for any given length of time though.

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6/04/09

Floormodel

I'm a more relaxed and mellow form of every day me. I savor my alone time and try to spend some of it being quiet and letting the world around me make the noise. I'm not a loner but have some loner-like tendencies. When I'm all by myself I don't have to worry about what anyone thinks or does and I like that feeling. And I'm borrowing from nothingprofound and saying "I am my best friend."

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1. 6/04/09
  
  red86
  
  it's kindda touchy... ahhhh...
6/04/09

PearlTrader

When in company a spectator, when alone a thinker.

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6/04/09

Agit8r

the same person I am all the time... take me or leave me!

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6/04/09

trailofpen

I am BATMAN! Don't tell anyone though.

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6/04/09

Stillthinking

When I am alone, I am still me, only without pants.

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1. 6/04/09
  
  red86
  
  hahaha! i got that... ; )
6/09/09

idealpinkrose

I do household chores, I watch tv, I blog, I cook, etc..

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1. 6/09/09
  
  red86
  
  it's a positive move...
  : )
6/09/09

farangrakthai

I'm seldom alone.
I can not afford to be alone.
My time on this earth is too short for me to spend it alone.
But when I am, I just write in forums or blogs.
Not really alone actually...

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6/09/09

Shiley

When I am alone I am still just me. After six years of having kids and hubby under my feet I have no clue what to do when I am alone.

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6/09/09

ThriftShopRomantic

I grew up as an only child, so I've learned to be alone quite well.

Nowadays, I take the opportunity to really concentrate on the novel I'm writing.

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6/09/09

Selvia

I dont think I ever want to be alone even when I am depressed or sad

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1. 6/09/09
  
  red86
  
  sometimes we also need to feel free from everybody.
  
  -to know exactly our selves.
  -to evaluate things around us
  -to learn things within us.
  
  what i'm pointing at.
  "a feeling of understanding things within our perceptions and
  beliefs"
  
  not only when we are depressed or sad.
  it may come when we are also happy but we need to be in silence.
  we may also feel it in times that we don't expected; but we want to
  feel to be out of everybody, in order to see things that way we
  want to understand everything in just a little moment"
  
  (a moment where we can find peace, joy or even anger & sadness.)
  
  in my opinion-this is the process of how being a real person
  
  -dreaming
  -hoping
  -living and
  -loving.
6/09/09

twoblogger

A person with high imagination

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1. 6/09/09
  
  red86
  
  that's what we call "spirit!"
6/09/09

bloggore

A meandering mind... looking for answers...

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1. 6/09/09
  
  red86
  
  aaaaahhh....
  i can relate on that,
6/09/09

writings

a dreamer full of sweetest dreams.

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6/09/09

UncleBeau

I am the keeper of the Seven Keys of Pentuzler...

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6/09/09

Bonnielona

When I am alone, I get on the phone, call my best friend and chitty-chat like we were teeni-boppers again...so I guess I'm young at heart when I'm alone...now at the bar away from my life at home, I am the one laughing at the drunkies who make fools of themselves.

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1. 6/09/09
  
  red86
  
  it's a way of forgetting the boredom of being alone..
  that's nice...
6/13/09

QuietWatersRise

I unfortunately am not alone very often, but when I am, I use that time for me. It may be reading a book, writing, getting lost in music, taking a long bath, going for a solitary hike in nature - all depending on what my mood is.
They all have the same purpose though- to use that time to connect with my inner self, explore my thoughts and dreams, and the best - to simply breathe in life.
I cherish those peaceful moments.

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6/13/09

jonnyontheball

me....

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6/13/09

Keniacris

I don't like being alone. There's too much silence around. Silence reminds me of emptiness and I do prefer being surrounded by the people I love.

Take care and keep smiling!

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1. 6/13/09
  
  red86
  
  thank's...
  
  but sometimes we need a little time for our selves to unwind.
  and feel exactly the real us, without realizing other people's
  judgements. in order for us to grow...
  
  silence may sometimes cause deft, but silence can tell you
  who you are.
6/13/09

writings

a dreamer but feet planted in reality.

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6/13/09

Bonnielona

Silence may open up another world besides getting to know yourself...you may end up hearing those quiet voices get louder and louder....lol....

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6/14/09

tlingitdreamer

OMG I have to have me time it's a must when you have two boys. I take a ride out the end of the road watch the stars, blast my music and think or not. I'm calmer when I'm by myself and am my own best friend no body understands me better than myself.

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6/14/09

Selbon

Superman..

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