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I just read this article and I am deeply moved by this so I had to share it out with you guys.

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Girl, 17, killed in Iraq for loving a British soldier
By Sadie Gray
A 17-year-old Iraqi girl was murdered by her father in an honour killing after falling in love with a British soldier she met while working on an aid programme in Basra, it has been claimed.

Rand Abdel-Qader was stamped upon, suffocated and stabbed by her father, then given an unceremonious burial to emphasise her disgrace. Police released her father without charge two hours after his arrest.

"Not much can be done when we have an honour killing case," said Sergeant Ali Jabbar of Basra police. "You are in a Muslim society and women should live under religious laws. The father has very good contacts inside the Basra government and it wasn't hard for him to be released and what he did to be forgotten."

A total of 47 young women died in honour killings in the city last year, Basra Security Committee told an investigation into Ms Abdel-Qader's case by The Observer. This is believed to be the only case of an honour killing involving a British soldier.

The MoD had no official advice for troops on how to behave with Iraqi women. The serviceman involved would not have been told that any relationship with her could put her life at risk, the paper said.

Ms Abdel-Qader, a student of English at Basra University, had struck up a friendship with a 22-year-old British infantryman known only as Paul five months before her murder in March.

She was believed to have last seen him in January, and the pair, whose relationship was innocent, only ever met while working at the aid station. The soldier was helping deliver relief to displaced families as part of his regimental duties. Ms Abdel-Qader was a volunteer worker.

On the day her father, Abdel-Qader Ali, was told of their friendship by a friend, he accused her of having an affair with a British soldier and killed her in front of his wife, Leila Hussain, and their sons.

"I screamed and called out for her two brothers so they could get their father away from her. But when he told them the reason, instead of saving her they helped him end her life," Ms Hussain said. She then left her husband and has since divorced him. She has received threats from her husband's family and is in hiding. She now works for an organisation campaigning against honour killings.

The Independent 30/04/08

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This makes my blood boil, and to think the father just walked away scot free!!!
This is in this forum under culture as I know it is not part of the religion (although some muslims think it is).
And as such I will be controversial and say IMHO not all cultures are equal.

I am glad the mother left the husband, though her life is now in danger, but how must she feel about her sons?

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  1. DrowseyMonkey
    Heartbreaking & outrageous all at the same time. I find stories like these so hard for me to fathom as they seem so nonsensical. So sad. Well, sad doesn't describe it, no words can really.
  2. carlgalloway
    Reading about this sort of stuff makes my blood boil. 'Nuff said or I'll get too angry and het up under the collar
  3. GFG
    These kinds of stuff are one of those things that justifies sending troops to Iraq!
    1. DrowseyMonkey
      well, sending troops to iraq isn't going to change long held cultural beliefs. You're more likely to do that with education.
  4. GFG
    before even going into education we've gotta put things in order... politically
    1. carlgalloway
      no we don't, its their problem and they need to sort it out. Our interfering is what is causing problems for us
    2. marcxtg248
      /agreed @ carl


      End of the day, inspite of all the advices/knowledge that the world can give to them it still boils down to their own decision. We can only do so much. For all we know, they know what's best for them and getting "in" to their business just complicates things for most of the time.


      But the kicker is when "morality" on their actions comes into account and in my opinion, it's never wrong to intervene when you are trying to correct things.

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