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Why don't men call you back after a date or after sex?

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  1. acousticguitarist
    well you just weren't that nice honey :-)
  2. wagerwitch
    Uhm - men who don't call back are arses... And need to be treated as such...

    But after sex - uhm... if a man isn't calling you back - then you are picking the wrong kind of men - and you should not have been sleeping with them.
    1. acousticguitarist
      you tell her, go on
  3. dbowles1017
    We don't call back when we aren't interested. Or if we are too scared to call (not me).
    1. deoangel
      Good one.
  4. acousticguitarist
    I don't call back when I really like someone, it's too scary
  5. celticmusicfan
    I agree. If men don't call back it means they don't want the relationship to continue.Don't make yourself too available. Sometimes when you give everything out , the mystery ends. When that happens, romance has no room. Concentrate more on your priorities. Do you want just the one night stand? Or do you want a serious relationship.
    1. dbowles1017
      I prefer 3 night stands.
    2. deoangel
      I agree. Good analysis.
  6. voodooKobra
    Because your name isn't "Back"?
  7. Anok
    Why don't men call me back?

    Because they don't call me in the first place, my husband doesn't appreciate it!
  8. mizzeboni
    i tried to read your blog but for some reason my comp kept shutting it off. I will try again later! But honey, the reason they dont call is because they either never had interest to begin with or they lost interest after that first date or after giving it up. Some men are all about the chase so once that chase is up, sometimes they lose interest and move on to the next.
  9. Sam1982
    he's just not that into you
  10. FredSr2009
    In the old days a man’s word was his bond. To some today ones word means very little it is almost all self-interest. That is your answer; by and large people do what they choose to do, the interest was just not there. You are not the one.
  11. wahabnr
    Co'z he interested to do it again...
  12. borislugosisr
    They don't know your number? After sex? You were so good you couldn't possible out do yourself again. So they're just content with having what they already got.

    They can just continue their miserable life thinking about it
  13. searchingwithin
    Why does it matter? If they don't call you back, then they are not the man for you, so move on. If you were silly enough to have slept with them before establishing that fact, and learning who they really are as a person, then chalk it up to a valuable lesson, one not to be repeated, and move on.
    1. lotusb
      Awesomly put...
  14. lotusb
    I don't want to be rude here...but I think the question is why don't men call YOU back. I've never experianced that. I'd assume the reason would be because their not into you...

    Again..not trying to be rude. ♥
  15. arielkrodot
    I am disappointed
  16. ArsenicCookies
    I wish that they wouldn't call me back. I always get a barage of texts and calls, with the exception of one who was pretty pissed off that I dogged him over the whole baby thing. It is annoying. I tend to attract the clingy, wanting to settle down types. Kind of a pain in the ass

    I would like to add that the one who didn't, did before I assumed he wanted nothing to do with said baby and treated him accordingly... but even after that he still will respond to an email or something if I bother to send it.

    So I would say, maybe you hurt their feelings or something and that is why? Men seem to be sensitive creatures
    1. lotusb
      Lol...you complain about having what so many women want. Except me..lol. I mean women want men who are ready to settle down and me and you seem to run from it... I have never had a man "diss" me like that, but if I did I think I would probably just think that man was intimidated by me.
    2. ArsenicCookies
      hehe I like my freedom. You've seen my facebook so are privy to some of those modeling pictures, don't think a boyfriend would approve

      besides the downside to the those clingy types is that they tend to stalk/get possessive/etc.

      That is why I liked that last one so much, he was a free spirit
    3. lotusb
      Oh yea...I know what you mean. I love casual relationships, there so free and honest. Hearing, "I'm not looking for anything serious right now" is music to my ears. I smile widely to their surprise and say, "Me either! Lets have sex!!" And we frolic happily into the sunset.
    4. aspotofblog
      I clicked on your link, but it has nothing to do with your question?
      Funny you ask, because I just wrote a post on the subject (but the reverse, when men don't stop texting/phoning).
      Normally a man doesn't phone when he's not interested. Same for me. Sometimes they won't phone because they're too shit-scared.
  17. yourfindit
    Maybe he was freaked out...
    Maybe there was a misunderstanding. e.g. they wanted sex, the woman wanted more...
    Maybe he was/is immature...
    Maybe he couldn't find the words to say...
    Maybe he found something he prefered...
    Maybe he got mugged on the way home and lost his phone...
    Maybe I should stop writing this maybe list...
    Maybe I will...
  18. stellak
    Well if a guy doesnt call I take it as a lack of interest and move on. I avoid trying to find excuses such as: he likes me so much hes intimidated to call.
  19. trailofpen
    Men will call you back when they want to go on another date or have sex again.
  20. sunyy
    if man dont call back it means that he got some other!
  21. F4wrdthnkndad
    A guy won't call you back if he's not attracted to you; or he's afraid you're not attracted to him.

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