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Will you fall in love with a stranger at first sight ?
Posted by crawler • 9/07/09 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: eternity, love, personality development, relationships
Has it happened with any of the BC member's ? I see great many faces everyday, but I am not so sure.... How about you ?
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no:D-
Any valid reasons....
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no valid reasons hahaha
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there should be some reasons for the 'no' don't you think ?
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Love, no, Lust, oh yeah.-
Why Lust ? Why not Love ?
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Maybe your definition of love is actually lust.
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There's no real reason for being lusted after something, if you can find your love I think.
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I doubt I would love any stranger. I need to to be around them like in school or a job. Some way so we can both observe each others personality.-
If you were to be around ' one of those faces ', who you felt like ok, what will be the approach next.... ?
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I always fall in love with strangers, i live in a pretty small town, so you see the same people quite often, and you can kind of have an insight into their lives.
But then if i ever got to know them, i'd probably end up hating them, as I tend to do an awful thing of picking up on peoples bad side quite quickly.
That's why i like dogs (not in a weird way obviously), they don't speak.-
If I am right, you are waiting for that perfect one. Wish you good luck ! I am sure you will !
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It didnt happen to me but to my girlfriend 7 months ago and we are happy together planning common future
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Wow ! Umm you're so lucky ! Wish you the best !
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Thank you very much! Actually it was quite scary when after 5 days I was phoning with her at 5AM and she was drunk, saying "I am just mad about you"
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Umm, So, what do you like about her the most ?
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She makes me happy as nobody else... .)
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True, that's the greatest asset of love. Wish you the best again !
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Thanks again and what about you, do you have someone...? .)
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I am not so sure at the moment.....but cannot guarantee in the future.......I cannot hold on to anymore.........
*sighs* *dreaming again keeping eyes opened*
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i did back in high school and it never went away. we still see each other.
That was 13 years ago and it never has happened w/ any one else, even though I have fallen in love with them soon after.-
Wonderful ! I believe true love succeeds ,can go all the way, no matter what.
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Good 4 u,plan away!!!-
Is it not sometimes that you fall apart ? That's the scary part, what do you think ?
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I fell in love with someone i'd never spoken to before. I knew we were meant for one another nothing else mattered....the problem was he didn't feel the same way. That's how it always happens
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that's biology, not love -
@ HollytheHousewife Hey no ! You cannot be wrong always, I m sure. I can say it for sure, So never say no. Life's a treasure explore it, you will.
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biology experiments can be fun
if you know what I mean
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I've always preferred falling into a hammock to falling in love.-
is that what they call it nowadays
*in full disclosure, Agit8r is too jaded to participate meaningfully in this discussion*
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Aww ! Yu reminded me of those sweet little things....thank you, Are you scared ?
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I fell in-love with my hubby on-line without seeing his photo initially. Love is a funny thing. It happens when you least expect it.-
Great to know that Funkkeejooce, Love is sweet, eternal, you never know when you're gonna knocked of your feet.
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Once, but it didn't work out. Apparently her husband wasn't too happy when I broke in their house to smell her underwear... Talk about awkward-
Youre great
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haha! Awesome
you are kidding... right? o_0 -
Oops, Is it true ? I can't believe that, you should be nuts, Did you know he was in ?
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It's only fair you bring her YOUR dirty underwear to smell. Just ring the doorbell and hold them out. -
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DB - You're a good stalker. -
@Tjlubrano like to be stalked ? What do you think about love........ at first sight ?
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Oh I posted my comment in the wrong place -_-'. It had to be further down this thread.
Haha no I don't like to be stalked. It happened a few times, can't say that I liked it.
Either way, I've only been in love once. I don't say that love at first sight doesn't exist, but usually you're attracted to someone and then if it all goes well, you can fall in love. So it's more a physical attraction instead of love at first sight. Personally, I don't fall in love easily. -
@Tj no matter where your reply is, I think its fair to say that everyone likes attention as long as it's far far from being stalked. Yeah at first sight physical attraction holds, but isn't it not Love is physical too ??
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Sorry, I don't really follow. You mean that without love and you are together with some one, that it's still physical? If you mean this, then I agree.
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@Tj Is it not love about physical attraction also ? No matter even if it's first sight.
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True. I think that physical attraction is a key element.
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Snoodle- I know.
agi- I only wish I could joke about this...
crawler- I am not nuts, I am not nuts, I am nut nots, I am not nuts, I am not nuts
Dead- What underwear?-
No underwear? I guess you'll just have to open your trench coat and hope that's acceptable.
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Ok, you ain't nuts, I appreciate it !
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DeadRooster- It usually is.
crawler- Who told you I'm not nuts! I will kill them! -
sounds more like love at first sniff
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clearly I sniffed after I saw, and stalked for 3 weeks.
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@Dbowles So, you stopped seeing her, but Do you love her still ?
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oh, well that's on topic then...
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Who said anything about me not seeing her? Restraining orders only count if they can see you!
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@DeadR LOL
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Yea ur right.biology. when the other variable of the equation doesn't reciprocate it becomes a subject. Biology.
Love= fireworks,explosions,paranormal,4th deminsional,get it???-
see above qualification:
www.blogcatalog.com/discuss/entry/will-you-fall-in-love-with-a-stranger-at-...
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That's sooooo scary.
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Yea jaded...I knos how that goes
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Yeah, I fall in love with the avatars here all the time.-
I agree. Some of them are devilishly handsome
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@aspotofblog A confession, I fell for yours too... but what do you think about love at first sight ?
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Glad I'm not the only one
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I've never fallen in love at first sight but I've certainly had a very intense urge to be close to someone without having gotten to know them yet.
But, it's all good, I'm working it out with my therapist!-
'them' ? or him ? Any way I wish you the best in your urges
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them .. him... depends on how many drinks I've had lol ...
I do hope you know I am and was joking hehe -
I like your jokes...
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@betty : Isn't this what infatuation is made of? -
@Tsu www.youtube.com/watch?v=ztc4V3ttlso - You're Beautiful ! - James Blunt, this is all about infatuation too...
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or Infatuation turning into love ?
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I don't think I've ever fallen in love at first sight. It's more like attraction at first sight. But sometimes you get to know the person and then you're hopelessly disappointed. Sometimes it's better just to admire them from afar and keep the mystery alive.
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That sounds intelligent to me, but also little bit like scared, disappointments can make a person nervous. Love is a sweet poison.
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it's difficult I think You cannot love an avatar, you need to meet him/her and talk together in a romantic place such as Jurassic Park -
Sinhk, I have full-on, loving relationships with avatars!
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That's true! She likes to stare...
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@TJ And I don't like to get stared at. Like staring sometimes, if it pierces the heart.
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@ Crawler: yeah if people stare I get self conscious and don't know what to do haha. It depends who stares tho ^_^
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@Tj Yeah, you have that right absolutely secured.
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I think it's hard to be in love for someone just because you have stare at her avatar, so, I don't believe in love at first sight! Even if you fallen in love, sometimes she/he it's just disappointing!-
Have you had any such experience, if you would like to share ?
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Actually I have, but I won't share it... (Of course it wasn't in BC I'm still a new guy)
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Anthony, if you would take some effort to go through this thread there are some members who have beard fruit with their first sight love.
But I agree with you on your opinion that sometimes you're disappointed but also it can be true love standing right in front to take notice.
It is OK not to discuss the private things on a public forum. I wish you the best at BC, it is one of the best on planet. -
it didn't end in the best way, I already put her behind, don't want to remember her...
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oh oh OK, this is my weakness, I cannot withstand a relationship that breaks, nor I can see somebody hurt in love.......... I wish you great times ahead. Love makes you happy can also make you sad and sometimes can leave bitter memories...... Life is all about coping with such instances.
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@Crawler
Did I said I dated her? LOL I simply felled in love for her, but then I discovered that she was not there a good person
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Can u say that again?
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Lust, then love at first site. -
Love at first type is more like it,haha.
That's so silly,I kno only I laugh at my on jokes,haha,neener neener -
M'k just realized it wasn't that funny. Oh my lord now I'm talkin to myself. I better go read my book before I start answering myself
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This is hilarious! TJ and Crawler are talking about staring! I just wrote a post on that. What awesome timing. Hahahahahaha
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You did!! Hahaha cool! I will check the post out tomorrow!
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www.youtube.com/watch?v=aKXPFzOFPfI - Staring at your window -JBJ.
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@ Aspot - Read it & Loved it! I couldn't wait till tomorrow ^_^.
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TJ, go to bed.
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@Aspotofblog Well, some points are heavily sided in the post ! I find myself haunted nowadays you know, I really mean it, I ain't lying.....I am at a breaking point....you cannot imagine that.......
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The first time I saw the Doll I knew it would be forever -
Monkey and Doll. A great combination.
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carved into the cliffs of God's private river.
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Now that is love, monkey ass. Real, real lurve.
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@Crawler
Which points were heavily sided? And what is haunting you? Why are you at breaking point?-
@Aspotofblog I wish I could discuss it here but I am sorry I cannot, it's nothing so serious. It's OK.
It's women too who do stare at men but you only talked more about men in the post, that I felt a bit sided, if I am wrong correct me, and it haunts me. I don't like being stared at.
But it was a wonderful post nevertheless. I like the way you write.....
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This may sound funny but my hubby did fall in love with me at the first sight. This is the whole truth and nothing but the truth.-
Great to know that Selvia ! Thanks for sharing this with us here !
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lying thru the ears
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Nope. Incidentally, this is the same question I would like to ask Jose Feliciano... -
m'k well I'm gonna have to go google that name now
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Yes and It had happened to me. And it was fantastic. -
@nogueira married too ? nice to know that
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@crawler
It wasn't my intention to be one-sided. I am aware that women stare too, but this was specifically about men who stare and women who don't like it when their men look at other women.
Thanks for the compliment.-
I could understand your post after going through your blog, it was a misunderstanding, I like your posts. I hope this should clear it. Sorry for the delayed response, as you know I am a bit busy these days.
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I like the way you write. I haven't seen you either these days. Are you too busy ?
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Oh god, no.-
God bless your love at first sight skills !
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attracted but not directly.. love...i guess... why the said.. 'love at first sight'? must be a reason.. blame it on the cupid..-
Is not love also an attraction ?
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Good thinking ! May be seeds of love are sowed in those initial moments, we cannot say it for sure though where it leads to, a love life or just a furtive glance. Like your reply beautiza !
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thats just inflatuation or seduction lol , not at all love !-
You look to me pretty confident about it, but some say that they fell in love at first sight...... What do you think ? Are they lying ? Are you completely saying the truth and nothing else ? Have you come across love in your life ? Is love not about seduction too ?
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I cannot say that for sure scf, but if you have got in you, then she will be more than ready to welcome you with her open arms I think, the question is are you ready for it ?
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this is suck..but i normally fall in love everyday with a strangers everytime i step out from my house..the bad things is,the fall to me too,hahaha...its not easy to live like this -
I haven't fallen in love at first sight, however there are 2 men whom upon seeing them, I HAD to know them, it was an unexplainable compulsion and subsequently I loved them more intensely than any others.
One ended up being my only real enemy and ran off to Germany and the other I am still very, very, very close with and we always seem to find our way back to one another -
I say there's no such thing as love at first sight. There's definitely infatuation or attraction, but actual love comes from knowing a person and wanting to never stop learning more about them. Love at first sight is what leads us to a high divorce rate, IMO.
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