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would u leave your family for the sake of your love?

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  1. dosox
    NO because my love will NOT do that
    1. roentarre
      Good one there.
  2. jafabrit
    It depends on what sort of a family a person has.
  3. MadameX
    It seems to me that if you have a good relationship with your family, that will not be necessary--and if you don't, that will not be the reason you're leaving.
  4. Jaybetee
    Oh I would do anything for love, but I won't do that!
    1. itSAMEERacle
      ROFL! Nice one!
  5. JamCan
    What do mean by LEAVE them????
    1. irtiza104
      i mean "get out of site, out of touch for god knows how long"
  6. wagerwitch
    I think that this has too many variables.

    I can say yes --- Love means everything.

    Yet FAMILY IS LOVE.

    There is a lot to do with this.... before you could get a correct answer.
    1. JaydenVasara
      i echo this
  7. nburmandesign
    Would I stab myself in the eye to improve my eyesight? Or cut off my legs to run faster??
    I wouldn't allow love to come in the way of my family. If you do, it's not love.

    It sounds like you are asking for a reason. Come on, out with it. What are you REALLY talking about?
  8. dbowles1017
    Are you talking about leaving your kids? Or like leaving parents? I don't get what you're asking.
    1. irtiza104
      sorry for not making it clea. i meant parents
    2. dbowles1017
      I'm leaving my parents for a reason not even associated with love. I can't wait until the end of June when my lease begins and I can move out of their house. (I just moved back to town... that's the only reason I'm living with them again)
  9. dannyvice
    Those who leave family for love - often end up alone with a bitter ex-wife......a girlfriend who won't be put on a guilt trip for your decision..... and resentful kids....

    Better think long and hard about the odds.
  10. natazya
    im not gonna leave my family..

    i'll stay, but might have been keeping a distance to keep everyone's comfort

    i guess my love's my family too... i wont leave anyone!
  11. moneyza
    I love my mama and papa so much.
    So i think the man haven't enough value to me for do that.

    ^ - ^
  12. Burisfa
    no, except my family do something bad but not leave them
  13. SweetViolet
    If by family you mean your parents and siblings, then yes, one should leave the family for love...at least in Western cultures.

    If by family you mean your spouse and children, then no. I heard somewhere that relationships that start out as affairs have a less than 5% chance of long-term success. Those are pretty long odds and they pretty much guarantee that the person leaving will end up with two broken relationships and no love.

    Better to go into counselling and fix the marriage or just get out, get a divorce and start fresh. Cheating is an unfair and unsuccessful choice.
    1. irtiza104
      nice advice...
  14. IntoTheAzureSea
    without a doubt.
  15. wagerwitch
    Hey AZURE!!! Good to see you!
  16. theskinnyblog
    Definitely not! I couldn't leave my daughter or fiance for anything. I think a lot of people fall in love outside of their relationship and give no consideration to the fact that they may need to be working on the one they are in to re-ignite things.

    As for leaving my family as in parents, ermmmm I wouldn't abandon them by any means but if they tried to stop me from loving someone and I saw it as unreasonable I would try and make them see sense.
  17. Onchong
    Yes, if it would mean providing a better future for my dear ones. Love involves lots of sacrifices.

    No, if it would mean satisfying my own selfish whims.
  18. nothingprofound
    Yes, but I'll take their love with me when I go.
  19. LolitaV
    Done, best decision I ever made
  20. rcal4848
    i wouldn't even give it a second thought. Immediately I'd be gone. I believe its important for personal growth to get out and about.
    1. LolitaV
      i agree. for a couple to grow and last, they need to be away from family and keep family outside of their problems.
  21. cookingasshole
    I love my family
  22. robertstevenson
    I will probably marry again some day, but for the last 10 years I've been a single dad raising my boys. That's my priority.
    1. LolitaV
      and gramar (lol)?
  23. Haley
    yes, I would.... if it means my life happiness, yes.
  24. RudrakshRudranjali
    very silly i must say... if the family is without love... its no family.... then go ahead and leave....and if you are talking.. about a lady love.... believe me...if lady dose not understand.. you.... no point in loving... these sex maniacs...
  25. BetsyIckes
    No. Once you have children, it is best to try to keep a family together.
  26. jafabrit
    I married and moved to America and yes it was very hard, but it was the right choice and one my mother supported. So in that sense I left my family for love.
  27. chicky401
    Depends on what you mean by leave. Not talk to my family anymore no. Move to a nice place to raise my kids with my love then maybe. My family and I are very close so I do not see me loving anybody who expects me to leave them.
  28. amrhima
    I definitely would do it...in fact i might actually have to do it
  29. stellak
    I could recolate geographically for love, but in no way I would allow a romantic relationship affect my bond with them. My family has always been there for me and I plan to do the same for them!

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