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Women know Sex within 5 mins
Posted by bloggernoob • 11/10/08 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: sex
i honestly believe that women decide if they are going to have sex with someone within 5 mins of meeting them. this doesn't mean that they will have sex with them right then and there, but within five mins, they will access the situation and decide if they will or will not have sex with that person in the future.
you're thoughts on this matter? my opinions about sex are usually right 50% of the time. 
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5 minutes??? Try more like thirty seconds to maybe if you stretch it like the first minute of meeting a guy...-
three seconds for me
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Any guy who thinks they know anything about this subject can stop talking now, cause you know nothing and never will.-
That's right... we can never understand women..
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i agree women do it a lot faster than guys.
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Nope, don't think this is true at all. -
guys AGREE !
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sometimes, less than that...is hard to understand them, though -
This is very true in the case of Girl, In their opinion
"First Opinion is the last opinion"
But For guy it hard to pick, Because most of the time we make our mind within seconds
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I agree, and I'm a woman. I know if I want to have sex with someone the first time I meet them, usually within a few minutes. Of course, that doesn't mean I will. It just means that in the right circumstances I would like to.-
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bingo, that's what i was talking about. talk about hitting the nail right on the head
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Try 5 seconds. -
It took me six minutes once. -
Some women figure out that they want to have sex before they even meet me.-
how do u figure that?
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When they hear the dulcet tones of his voice it sends women weak at the knees and wishing to see him in the flesh! -
I'm just that good.
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i hate that weak in the knees feeling... it makes me feel weak... in the knees.
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And how many seconds for a man?-
it takes less than 5 seconds to assess whether the required curves are in place!
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I can't speak for all women, certainly, but to me that idea is laughable.-
Yeah - but this comment is 5 hours old (as of 2:20 pm, EST). Maybe you've changed your mind? ahem.
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I've interviewed a number of women, usually at 2am after a few drinks have been had, everybody realizes nobody is getting naked, and mellow mixed with truth is in the air. Everyone of them confirmed that supposition. They know immediately if a man is "eligible" or as they said on Seinfeld, "spongeworthy". Less than 30 seconds. Sometimes as little as 5 seconds.
Now....that being said, the man can usually eliminate himself from selection based on any number of things, and usually does. That's why the long build up, - the elimination period.-
That says something pretty depressing about our society and the way we interact.
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They should be playing blitz chess then. I play 3 minute games. They would know all the moves faster than me. ha -
Ok... I totally believe this to be true 95%-99% of the time. Women just don't usually do a bad job of displaying it. Occasionally you'll get the whorish type girl that openly shows her attraction using non-verbal communication, but for the most part I believe women usually have their mind made up on this long before guys do. Check out my blog for more information on this topic www.jakeandcolin.com
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I def know within five minutes the guys that don't stand a chance, it's weeding through the other prospects that takes a bit longer.-
Although I'm married and faithful, as they say, I'm wed but not dead. I agree with faithju243. The attraction factor or chemistry is either there or it isn't. Within 5 minutes of meeting them I can identify the men I would never ever choose to have sex with.
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I completely disagree. Attraction is much more a function of the heart and mind than it is something purely physical. I've certainly known men who held no appeal for me upon meeting who became increasingly attractive as I got to know them.
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@Madamex....I will say that comment is in general and not good for all situations and of course I am just saying for myself not the larger female population. But my basis for that is comment is simply this, there are some men who I am just not attracted to regardless of how physically appealing, how great the personality, how funny etc etc etc, there's just nothing there and nothing will be. It happens, those are the guys I meet and w/in five I can tell if there's even the slightest chance.
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there are some men who I am just not attracted to regardless of how physically appealing, how great the personality, how funny etc etc etc, there's just nothing there and nothing will be.
The way I read bloggernoob's question is not about any aspect of relationship building other that than sex appeal (physical attraction) and that's subjective.
I'm the same as faith on this. However, lack of physical attraction does not mean that we will not be friends. What it does mean is I'm NOT physically attracted to them - period. -
yes time. im just talking about sex. not talking about love or relationship building.
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yes time. im just talking about sex. not talking about love or relationship building.
I thought so. Thanks for the confirmation. -
"yes time. im just talking about sex. not talking about love or relationship building"
Ah, yes...I'm unqualified to comment, since I can't fathom the possibility of separating those two things, or being physically attracted to someone I didn't know. It makes me sad that this seems like a reasonable and even natural separation to so many people.
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I think it would depend on the sitch and the woman. I have met men that I thought I would never get heavy with and then ended up in the sack THAT NIGHT. Most recently I met a man who I thought was SO gorge, hot accent, beautiful face, good conversation...I wanted to jump him right away. But by the end of the night when it came time for the awkward kiss goodnight, I simply pecked his cheek and told him to call me. I never did sleep with him.-
good point lotus, i think that the longer u spend time with a person, u will either find an unattractive man more attractive, or an attractive man more unattractive, but i think the initial decision is made within 5 mins for sex by women.
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SOME women. Because in I don't think this goes for every women. Being as how I am a woman, and contridict thie theory.
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Wait a minute Lotusb I thought you were in a committed relationship or am I reading your comment wrong I could be I didn't have tea today!
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if you're talking purely about sex i agree but not if you're talking about sex that implies some degree of commitment. deeper attraction can be based on a lot of factors that don't necessarily reveal themselves within 5 minutes.
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LOL noob your opinions is 50% right all the time...what a safe estimation lol...
Regarding your assessment:
I don't agree... because not every woman go out to meet a man for the purpose of selecting who to sleep with. -
I agree with the 5 minutes, but the accessments are always subject to change, based on alcohol comsumption, discovery of large boat/bank account/cock, or if another attractive female suddenly finds interest in said guy.
(These are just observations that i have made) -
Wow, histrionic personality disorder anyone? -
I disagree as well. I think most women aren't even thinking of that, and hopefully most don't even consider it until the lab test is complete, and that takes a whole lot more than 5 minutes.-
So we need lab tests first to even be included in the selection pool? I think not.
I think the decision comes first, and the people who want the lab tests will go and get them. I mean you're not going to get one done for someone who you know will have no chance with you right? -
That wasn't the statement the staement was "i honestly believe that women decide if they are going to have sex with someone within 5 mins of meeting them. this doesn't mean that they will have sex with them right then and there, but within five mins, they will access the situation and decide if they will or will not have sex with that person in the future."
No women don't decide if they will or will not have sex with someone with five minutes. There is too much for at cost for most women to make that decision as most women don't like sleeping with men of questionable character and it takes a long time to assess that.
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Once the eyes meet you know. -
I really don't think this is true, at least not for all women. Honestly I don't think about having sex with anyone I just met. Then again maybe that's just me. -
I think your hypothesis puts a lot of pressure on men and woman alike.-
Don't worry Ekim. Five minutes doesn't count because a lot of guys won't stick their foot in it for at least thirty minutes. For most women who are choosy, one must feel the opponent is worthy of their time and effort.
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They probably do. -
I thinks it takes more a minute to decide. But it depends with the situation. -
just don't forget the rubber not unless you gonna do it with another girl..lol -
Woman you never understand.... highly unpredictable... -
I think that's true too. -
In a general way I agree.
But what about the homosexual twist on things? Do you gyus think they know as well? -
wow....5mns...????
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Just in 5mins??
I don't believe it.Not all women want to have a sex just in 5mins!It's take days, weeks, even months to know about it! -
may women can wait for 5 min but men are always ready to accept at first sight -
yeah.. for Women know Sex 5 min and for man just 0,5 ms
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No, it takes me longer. I need all of me turned on and especially my mind. I can't get into someones head within five minutes. Once I'm there though and I see myself mentally unzipping his pants, it still might never happen. He has to really want it to get it and if he doesn't try hard enough, I'm doomed to moist panties and erotic mental images of him naked and rock hard. ...it can be frustrating!
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is it biology? Godamn! www.dangerdanger.org
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well it only takes about 10 seconds for anyone to decide whether they like a website ... so you may actually be pretty close there.. you can do a lot of thinking in 5 mins. the problem is that guys take a long time thinking that they need to set the stage for the big play... in general by that time they have already sabatoged what they gained in the first 5 mins... so its pretty much nil!-
ten seconds,,, i thought it was 1 second. and if the site doesn't load in 1 second, we bounce.
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I think I disagree.
If it is someone I would have sex with then yes I know within 10 seconds pretty much.
But if it's someone I don't think I would, I wouldn't write them as a possibility within 5 minutes.-
thats what i meant. i am not saying that you will be convinced by a guy who u don't want to have sex with to convince u to have sex with him in 5 mins. i am saying that women usually make a quick assessment of the sex possibility. in yoru case, it was 10 seconds.
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