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would you stay in a sexless marriage
Posted by amybyrd21 • 7/02/09 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: marriage, sexless, stay
If you were stuck in a sexless marriage would you stay in it. If so what would you do to change it. I have to say no I would not stay if I wasnt truly happy.
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What is it? Sex and Satan day?-
Sex and Satan go together
Like a horse and carriage -
Better than religious month(s)
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I am awaiting some Catskills comedian to enter into this conversation and say "sexless marriage" is a redundant term.
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Hahah You just made me choke
LOLLOL
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no I was just wondering bedcause some one said sexless marriage and I would be miserable in one why would I stay there. But there is more than sex ina marriage.
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I have been in a loving and fulfilling and supportive marriage to my best friend for over 30 years. And we all know that one does not require a partner to experience orgasms. If my husband were unable to have sex with me, I would adapt to that situation and remain married to him, because our marriage is based on far more than sex.
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Yup...that's me, too.
My late husband had high blood pressure and the medications they put him on made him impotent. As his doctor told him, "sex after death is no fun." The last 3 years of our marriage, he was unable to have sex. If he hadn't died, I would still be happily married to him. There is more to a good marriage than sex.
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All marriages are pretty sexless after a while. Sex may be the reason marriages begin, but it's not the reason they endure.
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Sex can be important in a marriage but not the most important and certainly not a reason to leave if you truly love your spouse. It sucks sometimes but is it worth giving up a marriage and/or family because of it? No. If you say yes then you obviously don't know what true love is. -
i can't be in a sexless relationship. no man can resist my powers. MWAhahahaaaa -
Ask my Ex... He decided I was worthless when I couldn't perform for health reasons.
LMAO - I'm glad too - because I'm happy now.-
that sucks. but the thing is sometimes for the good to come, the bad has to be purged.
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Yup Yup Yup... Me and my HOTTIE are HOT... Let me tell you...
I'm so glad I made the switch. -
You made the switch to digital cable too? How's it going for you?
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About three inches better and definitely more HD... LMAO!
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I thought that's what marriage was. -
Im in a sexless relationship - and about to get married.
Things get better right?-
run for the hills..... -
Sure....sure it does.....
hey, I've got this country, see? And I wanted to sell it...you interested? -
Huh?
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I'm picking on you
Kiwis. Pffft. -
Hey, thats not fair - using ultra criptic sentences to make fun of me hahaha
My tiny fragile little one track mind can't handle it -
I figured if you believed that things got better after marriage, I Could sell you something outrageous - like a bridge, or a country
You need some coffee, my friend. -
You're dead right - i've been laying off the coffee lately because my ticker has been playing up, whence my two day absence that no one noticed
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Oh no
Did you go to the doctor and make sure everything is OK?
That shit scares me -
Yeah I did but he didnt know what the problem is, I had heart surgery when I was 4 months so its territory that that GP knows very little about - so at this stage I'm waiting on advice from my cardiologist.
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Oh noes. Sending positive thoughts your way ♥
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Sorry to hear that Sam I can relate though mine has been giving me problems lately and I was in the hospital hooked up to all sorts of wires and tests on Friday. -
It's not cool is it - especially during the recession when paying the bills seems like a bit of a stretch
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It's no fun recession or not Am out of work for now, which isn't really my big concern but how I have been feeling lately I know is not right. But no worries, nobody can get rid of me that easy LOL
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I still have a job, but I'm wondering if it isnt at least part of the problem anyway. The doctor said that I need to de-stress and that I need a better quality of life but its easier said than done really.
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Yeah I hear ya! I have a job I just am out until further notice. I can't drive a bus in my condition right now. Been walking alot but slowly or it is too much. Just glad I live in a town with a bus I can take shopping for free and it stops right in front of my house and there is alot to do that is close. Haven't even been driving my truck.
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Oh wow that's really scary and sad. You have to be careful with strong emotions then.-
Its my fiances emotions that I'm afraid of
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I would have to say it depends on how much you truly love the person. A sexless marriage would be hard for me but then again I don't plan on getting married again either. If I truly cared about the person and we couldn't have sex for health reasons then that is no reason to leave. If there is no real reason there is no sex then it is a little tougher to stay.
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I would.
I didn't get married for sex, though sex is a definite bonus.
If sex were the only reason for marriage, I would have just continued with my teenage male slutty life style. -
Yes, so long as he's happy for me to get it somewhere else.
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